I married an alter but of course did't know it for many years.we
were very happy for about 5 yrs untill the body became pregnant.
then she went inside..pure hell for years untill a bad trama brought
her dissorder to light. I'am now the daddy to a lot of kids.
Your Ex with out care might become self-distructive, but that
happens even with help. Good luck to you and your children. It can
be a wild ride.
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option and you
> are in any way able. Love all of her altars. Reject no one. Accept
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