I'm afraid to kiss my girlfriend, who has DID, or even make any
sudden movements around her. She was sexually abused as a child, and
I'm afraid any intimacy on my part will trigger or possibly
retraumatize her. I'm not afraid of <i>her</i> hurting <i>me</i>;
rather, I'm afraid of her hurting herself. I've witnessed an alter
chop off her lovely black hair, and I've seen the cuts on her wrists,
the word "DIRT" carved on her beautiful white legs. I love her so
much, and want to do something, but don't know what. Does anybody
have any advice for me?