Hi,

--- In mpdspouses@yahoogroups.com, "the_cailleach
<Rainscailleach@a...>" <Rainscailleach@a...> wrote:
> I was jsut looking for some general info. from the others in the
> group.
>
> 1 - Are there many of the members who have a male SO

Yep, I do. And I suspect it's not as rare as some sources would have
you believe. My opinion is that DID is probably about as common in
males as females but has just been underdiagnosed.


>
> 2 - Anybody who's spouce is highly fragmented or continuing to
> fragment often (or anybody with DID with insight into this area?)

Sorry, I don't have much info on this.

>
> 3 - I am looking for some general opinions on my husbands
therapists'
> approach. ...> is it me, DID patient, or poor therapy???

It's poor therapy. I understand how hard it can be to find someone
qualified, but I'd like to offer some help in finding a therapist. I
second the recommendation to contact Sidrar (www.sidran.org) They
should be able to give you some names of therapists in your area who
are experienced in treating DID or who are at least interested in
seeing someone with DID. Another resource which helped was our local
rape crisis center. I never would have thought to call them if one of
the therapists I called hadn't suggested them. They were able to
give me a number of names.

I wish you and your husband the best of luck.

Peace,

Sufia