Lots of Big ((((HUGS)))
I lost my 12 1/2 year old daughter May 18,2002. Life is tough and yes, it is a
roller coaster. I am too finally taking counseling, for all the things/feelings
etc that have happened. I wish I had been able to do it sooner, but I guess the
time is right now. I was an emotional wreck over December, finally asked the
doc. for some anxiety meds. Helped through it,  just have to go through it,
can't go around it. I can say, the emotional roller coaster does get further
apart, so it does not rule every day of your life. Hang in there. I went 
through my first divorce right after my daughter passed. Then I thought I met
Mr. Compassionate, which was a big mistake. I am much happier living & being
with just my kids & self. It is very difficult to be around such grief. I rather
do it on my own than to be judged by another. It makes it easier to deal with
the emotions without adding a bundle more into the mess.
 
Absorb the help you can get, be kind to yourself. When one goes through major
surgery, they are allowed a long recovery. We just went through Major
Surgery....HEART Ripped out. Never goes away but we do learn to cope better. Do
whatever you need to feel better. Rather it being crying your eyes out or
distracting yourself. I finally am getting into my horse & other animals. Great
way to give & get unconditional love.

Remember, we are here, you may feel you are alone, but we all feel your pain &
we all need each other, if only by typing.
Praying for you,
Helen, Lisa's Mum


--- On Sat, 1/24/09, mandi kuelling <mandikuelling@...> wrote:

From: mandi kuelling <mandikuelling@...>
Subject: Re: [Mourning Loss of a Child] LOST
To: mourninglossofachild@yahoogroups.com
Date: Saturday, January 24, 2009, 8:24 AM






((((((HUGS)) ))))

Yes This Sucks...

Mandi
Mon of Angel Jared 06/30/011-12/ 23/03
www.jared-kuelling. memory-of. com


nanna571022916 <nannabah@yahoo. com> wrote:
I feel so sick physically, mentally, emotionally. My daughter passed
April 3, 2005. She was 12 years old. After all this time I am finally
going to get some help. My marriage, my family is a mess because of how
I am. My husband told me he hates me. IT seems like with this grief
thing we get better for just a second and then it hits us again.I have
no one to talk to. I need a hug right now. This all sucks!!!!!!!

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