Hi Kelly,
I am so sorry that you have lost your Morgan, I'm sitting here with a lump in
my throat and tears in my eyes I know how hard all this is and I wished you
would not have to go through all of the heart ache that you are facing now. If
you ever need to to just vent feel free to to write me anytime if I am not here
my work address is rita.abila@... I lost my son Rudy Jr. 2 1/2
years ago he was 14 yrs. old and there's not a day that goes by that I don't
think of him and wish I could hold him for just a second or two.
My Rudy died playing sports he had always wanted to box since he was about 8
yrs. old With my job I had a parenting booth at a car show and they also
happen to have some exibition matches so they found a coach and started going to
practice. During sparring practice a vain in his head broke and they took him
into emergency surgery but the Dr. came out and said there was nothing he could
do they Jr. would pass away that his brain was swelling to much when they
removed the bone. His heart gave out the next day and all I could do was hand
him back to our Lord.
I wish I could say that things will be better in a year or two but everone
goes at there own pace, life has gotten alittle better but the holidays are
still hell to go thru.
My first year I did what I had to I felt no emotions I just existed and cried
and pretended that he was a way at a friends for a while but after a while that
did not work either.
I tried writing for a while keeping a journal of my thoughts and that helped
some.
I looked up alot of things on the internet to trying to help me relieve some
of the pain that I was feeling and to try and help my husband and kids.
Take it one day at a time and sometimes if may be one minute at a time.
God bless you and your family and help guide you thru this trying time
especially this first year.
Take care
Rita

















m> wrote:
Hi, My name is Kelly I lost my 17 year old daughter on 9-22-07. She
died in a car accident. She was the oldest of three girls.

Her name is Morgan...she was with 3 friends and the driver of the
car she was in ran a stop sign and was hit in the passangers side where
Morgan was sitting. Morgan and two others were thrown from the
vechile. Morgan was killed instantly...or was dead when the EMS
arrived.

Her best friend was in the hospital up until about 4 weeks ago. The
driver and other passanger were treated and released.

I am having a real hard time dealing with the whole thing. So I
decided to try a new approach....and thats this group.

If anyone out there cares to share with me their story and how they
have managed to make it so far I would be grateful.

Sincerely,
Kelly







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