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Have you tried white noise? A small fan, clothes dryer, radio on static to name
a few. I have a space heater in all my kids' rooms and we run it at night. It
seems to help. Try setting up a routine at night to tell him it's bedtime.
Baths are usually enjoyed by most babies and they wear themselves out! Maybe a
lotion rub down and cozy pjs then nurse him and lay him down. You may have to
do this several times before he gets the idea. I usually don't let my kids cry
it out when they're that little, but a little fussing doesn't hurt either.
reassure him that you're not "gone" by patting his back or stroking, but don't
pick him up unless he's really upset.

Like I said, it may take several nights to establish this, but what have you got
to lose? Good luck, I hope this helps!
Peace,
Maria
Artist, Lover, Mother
Changing the World, one diaper at a time.

--- On Mon 02/05, michellebug1161975 < michellebug@... > wrote:
From: michellebug1161975 [mailto: michellebug@...]
To: midwifecenternewparentsgroup@yahoogroups.com
Date: Mon, 05 Feb 2007 05:26:39 -0000
Subject: [midwifecenternewparentsgroup] attached


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<p>Hello, <br>
I wonder if anyone had any advice or suggestions on how to get a baby <br>
to sleep *not in my or my husbands arms*. Maybe this is impossible, we <br>
have been trying everything, EXCEPT letting him cry it out. He is used <br>
to being nursed to sleep or bounced by my husband. if we leave the bed <br>
or put him down, he wakes up almost immediately. He sleeps really well <br>
when we are holding him or sleeping with him. As he gets older (he is <br>
6.5 months now) it is getting harder because he doesn't just fall <br>
asleep when he is tired anymore and I have been napping with him and <br>
going to bed at like 9pm. <br>
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thanks,<br>
Michelle<br>
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Hello, I wonder if anyone had any advice or suggestions on how to get a baby to sleep *not in my or my husbands arms*. Maybe this is impossible, we have been...
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Feb 5, 2007
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Have you tried white noise? A small fan, clothes dryer, radio on static to name a few. I have a space heater in all my kids' rooms and we run it at night....
Maria Wills
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Hi Maria, we are putting together a bed time routine. hopefully this will help. thanks for the suggestions! ... static to name a few. I have a space heater in...
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Feb 8, 2007
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Michelle, I'm an advocate for letting the child cry it out for a few minutes, but I'll try and give you some different advice. I've learned that if you try and...
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Hi Stephanie i havent let him cry because it goes against my instincts. it has always felt right to nurse him to sleep and coslee. i also i think because he...
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Michelle, I think that changes a lot of things, I too would want to take it a bit slower with my child if my child had been in the hospital for a long time. ...
Stephanie Burton
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Michelle ~ This sounds exactly like my son, Owen (now 21 months). At about 6 months we set a bedtime routine - bath, pj's, book, nursing, bed. You can use...
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Hi Michelle!! Thought I would give you a different view. No one way is right, it is what feels right for you and your baby and what feels right in your heart....
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Kara, As a nurse, maybe you can answer a question for me. Elizamay, my 2 month old, has had an excecive amount of sleep in her eyes since her second week. I...
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Hi Stephanie! Maybe a blocked tear duct...babies that have lots of goo in thier eyes sometimes have blocked ducts. Check with pediatrician, I can't remember...
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Hello, Ethan had a blocked tear duct (started at 2mths till 5 mths) sometimes it got worse, but it is now all better. the pediatrician said warm washcloths,...
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Michelle, thanks for the info... I'll put the warm washclothes and massage idea to use! Steph michellebug1161975 <michellebug@...> wrote:...
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Hi Kara, thank you for the advice. i have never wanted to let him cry, it just went againts all of my instincts. but as you said, i feel like i would like some...
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Michelle I hope the bedtime routine works for you. Babies like rhythm and structure. I'm a avid nurser and co-sleeper as well, but I also know from...
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