Hi Kim,
It's always interesting to explore stuckness and failure to make
progress so will you be sure to feed back your results? I would
appreciate it and I'm sure the rest of us would too.
Some suggestions for tapping -
Even though ...
My ears have never worked properly
I'm not the same as anyone else
I need to be different to everyone else
Being a difficult case makes me special
Being a difficult case (and special) makes up for the deafness
I have this need to be special - I mustn't let it go

Probably you've done fear of healing but have you actually covered ....
I don't know who I would be without this problem
I'm afraid of losing who I am if I let this go.
etc
And similar wordings along that route

Have you also done conflict tapping?
Even though .....I can't let this problem go ...I choose to let this
problem go (on every tapping point)
and various wordings accordingly.

Good luck. And well done for persevering. Keep on keeping on. Looking
forward to your next post-appointment report

Linda

EFT Office wrote:
>
> Hi Jo, Thanks for that advice, I will also explore her feelings about her
> hearing.
> We haven't touched on that yet. She went deaf at the age of 2 and might
> have some
> residual feelings about that.
>
> I was thinking today that she needs a live test. She also gets the same
> sensations when
> she is being driven in a car (she is OK when she drives herself). So I
> plan
> to take her
> out for a drive this week and soften and flow as we go....! I think a
> practical demonstration
> is definitely called for here.
>
> Everyones input has been so appreciated. Where as I was feeling quite
> deflated after
> the appointment this week, I now can't wait to see her again.
>
> Love
> Kim
>
> On Fri, Jul 18, 2008 at 10:05 AM, Joanne Frost <
> yourtranquiljourney@...
> <mailto:yourtranquiljourney%40yahoo.co.uk>> wrote:
>
> > rneyHi Kim,
> > Your situation reminds very much of my case study earlier in the
> year as I
> > qualified for EFT.
> > I had a friend with impotence problems as well as facing redundancy
> and he
> > was very hard of hearing.
> > I found that I had to do a lot of emotinal work on his feeling
> towards his
> > hearing, as although it did not effect directly his sexual ability,
> it did
> > have underlying emotional issues in respect of confidence. The whole
> flight
> > thing may also mask the underlying cause.
> > Your clients hearing issues seem almost spererate, however i would be
> > inclined to look at how her hearing makes her feel also.
> > Secondly how does your client know it has not worked?
> > Interestingly my case study came each week, and when I asked he said
> nope
> > no change. However he met a new girl friend just afer I did some ET work
> > with him ablout lowering shields. He reports that his sex life has never
> > been better!!!
> > Is there a way you could arrange to meet her at a local airport, tap
> about
> > the awkwardness and feeling she has about thinking about it etc
> before hand,
> > Actually try it out?
> >
> > Just a few thoughts on stuff I learned.... sorry if its case of teaching
> > granny to suck eggs.
> > Jo x
> >
> >
> > ----- Original Message ----
> > From: kims_heavens_touch <eftoffice@...
> <mailto:eftoffice%40googlemail.com><eftoffice%40googlemail.com>
> > >
> > To: meridiantherapy@yahoogroups.com
> <mailto:meridiantherapy%40yahoogroups.com>
> <meridiantherapy%40yahoogroups.com>
> > Sent: Thursday, 17 July, 2008 9:08:42 PM
> > Subject: [MET] Can someone help with me a flight/movement phobia
> >
> > I have seen a client twice about her phobia for movement (in
> > particular flying) and I don't feel I am making enough headway. Part
> > of her phobia stems from the fact that she is deaf in one ear and
> > believes her internal balance is responsible for her body sensations
> > (drop sensation in the stomach and giddiness)
> >
> > Can I have some advice please about clearing her belief sheilds about
> > being free of her phobia as it is like concrete and I'm finding it
> > very had to break it down. She has tried all manner of treatments
> > before (hypno, counselling, flight simulation) and has spent thousands
> > of pounds and nothing has worked. She has come to try ET and EFT but
> > she believes it wont work and made that quite clear from the start.
> >
> > I have tried statements of "Even tho I'll never be free of this" and
> > "Even tho I've tried all these things nothing has worked" and I've
> > managed to get her down from 10 to 8 even with the gamut sequence. I
> > can tell from her body language that she is still shielded and negative.
> >
> > We used ET on the first session and cleared her earliest memory. We
> > even used ET to great success on running through in her mind being at
> > the airport to actually taking off and landing in a plane. All body
> > responses flowed some from her stomach and down the legs. On other
> > things she had a complete total body response which we found the
> > epicentre to be the head and released it.
> >
> > The trouble was one week later on her second appointment she was
> > being negative and unable to focus, move or shift her blockages. And
> > there seemed an unwillingness to even try. I explored where her
> > beliefs are and she said in the head. When I tried to ET the feeling
> > in her head her mind would not focus on it. Part of me thinks this is
> > due to the fact that she had a shift and her Autogenic Universe is
> > trying to cling on to her belief system and patterns of behaviour.
> >
> > I decided to move to EFT so that her mind had some words to focus on.
> > I still don't feel I have managed to break through her barriers and
> > it feels as though I need to tackle her belief mechanism as it is
> > stopping me getting to the actual problem. She keeps telling me how
> > hard she is, it's almost like she wants to defeat yet another therapy!
> >
> > I tried tapping on the actual fear that "even though I dread the body
> > sensations" which started as a 10, but that only cleared to 8 after
> > several rounds.
> >
> > Any ideas please would be gratefully appreciated. I am seeing her
> > again next week.
> >
> > So many thanks
> > Kim
> >
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