Hi Baya

Thanks for your response to my post.

I just had a 'Love Clinic' session the other day and wrote it up as a great
illustration of EmoTrance and its approach to solving our problems in love and
relationships. This session took place in a restaurant, which I only mention,
because, working with our energy, using EmoTrance, is invisible to the public
eye, so you can help someone anywhere without attracting undue attention !! :o))

The session details follow below.

Love, Sandra
Sandra@...

Why Can't I Find A Good Man?

Sue was looking for her Mr Right, and so far had only been successful in
attracting Mr Wrongs. Either, the sex was great but the rest of the relationship
unfulfilling, or she found a good man, but he was boring and she ended up
exploiting or taking advantage of that. Sue was a feisty, strong character with
a tough exterior.

Our Love Clinic session was to try to explore what she was attracting what she
was attracting and to change the energetic patterns so that she really could
attract a good man, 'like her Dad', who was caring, kind, generous and loving at
last.

We started to build the picture out there in front of her, of what she was
looking for, her perfect man, and as directed she invited this energy into her.
There was an immediate resistance, a fear of being taken advantage of with a
feeling of not being worthy and deserving of goodness and an insight about her
stubborn strong energy coming from insecurity about 'does he actually mean it
when he says or does something good?'

We cleared the energy, which was blocked in her heart, to enable her to start to
accept the energy of goodness in. The energy was starting to flow but there were
pockets of resistance in her body, we cleared them. The next obstacle, 'I can't
actually believe he's out there'. And as she reached out to connect with the
energy of Mr Right, out there, she felt a barrier outside her body, and a sense
of 'unworthiness, she was such a bad person' and an insight that this had come
from childhood. She felt a pressure in her chest then a specific flashback to a
time when her Father who she adored had said this to her when she wouldn't put
her toys away. It was a deep old injury, deep in her solar plexus. It took a
while to soften. Then there was another flashback, when he said 'you are just
like you're Grandmother, lazy and selfish' again, deep in her solar plexus. The
energy started to soften and flow down into her hip where it stuck, more
softening until it flowed out through her knee.

We tested the memories again until the energy ran clear then I asked if she
could forgive her Dad for what he said? That was in her chest and head, then
when it had softened and released, there was nothing to forgive, he was doing
his best. Can you forgive yourself? There was a conflict, a confused energy in
the head, being selfish vs being selfless. We softened and flowed until this was
clear.

Then we tested, how deserving are you of goodness now? Sue felt so much better
about that now. We returned to the energy of her Mr Right outside her body and
the idea of now accepting that energy in.

Now as the energy flowed in it triggered another injury in the heart, the fear
of being dependent and needy. She sooo didn't want to be needy, like her Mum.
The energy was also in her head and her arms. But in reality, she was looking
for someone to fix her life, because she felt she couldn't do that herself. We
softened and released all these energies, from the chest head and arms. Can you
forgive yourself for this past neediness? Resistance in the neck. Soften and
flow, then a fear of letting go of an old pattern, she had relied on people all
her life. Soften and flow, and a realisation, this is what her Mum had done, for
40 years with her Dad. Can you forgive your Mum? There was an intense anger
towards her Mum, her neediness and how she behaved towards her Father for 40
years was unforgivable.

The energy was all over her body. We softened and released. Then there was
remaining numbness down her right hand side of her body with pains in the right
arm and leg . The anger had now become resentment, in her shoulders, and a 'I
just can't feel love for my Mum'. There were major conflicts with her Mum and a
huge shield to accepting her Mum's love. We softened and released the energy in
the arms legs and right side of the body then a realisation of how much she had
'judged her Mum' and not given her Mum what she needed. As her Mum craved her
attention, she had backed away cringing for many years at the thought of hugging
her Mum. More softening, then an insight, 'but if I open to my Mum, then I will
be vulnerable' she felt this in her heart and her right hand side of her body.
And with that we saw what all her lifelong armour was about and why she couldn't
actually allow in real love from another person because of this shield to her
Mum. And why, because of this shield, preventing love from coming in and
nourishing her, she had been needy in her relationships. In her disconnection,
she had attracted and accepted men who had not respected her and also who didn't
know how to give love and care themselves.

So we had made great progress in our first session, and now we had the way
forward for Sue. To continue to heal her relationship with her Mum and then in
that new openness of heart, to begin to learn and practice how to be a more open
hearted and connected person. Sue had to practice and to grow a strong heart
energy, as for so long this channel had been closed. In so doing she would
become more able to really receive love and goodness and therefore be able to
attract love and goodness in her life. We covered all of this in 90 minutes over
lunch.

EmoTrance is a great tool for us to explore who we are right, how we are
functioning emotionally and spiritually now in relation to life around us, and
to make the changes within our spirit or energy person, so that we can change
what we are attracting in our life and how we then respond to that. It is an
incredible teacher for self awareness and personal change.

Sandra Hillawi, 13 Jan 2008


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