Greetings,
Today, June 16, 2009, is the 10-year anniversary of Andrea Lynn Smeltzer's death
due to Bulimia. She died on June 16, 1999, sin her sleep. She was only
19-years old and she had been Bulimic for 1-year. She died in her sleep. Andrea,
today is in loving memory of you. You are dearly missed, but not forgotten.
Please light a candle in her memory, The Smeltzer family, and the memory of all
those who lost their battle and died in vain from their struggled with Eating
Disorders. Please light a candle in the memory of those who are battling this
life-threatening disease and keep their family members in your thoughts and
prayers. This is a family disease it affects everyone. Thank you.
I am always available to Chat or to talk/listen via telephone. No one is alone
unless you choose to be! There is hope, and help, and support from those who
have been where you are now. I am one of those people and another person is
Lynda.
Along with the lighting candles we ask you to go one step further and listen to
two of Andrea's favorite songs by Jewel, i.e., Fragile Flame (Fat Boy)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LyC59VuGbMs
and Innocence Maintained http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=urovUxpPuOc
both from her CD titled, "Spirit." CD. You can find these two songs Online for
free or if you subscribe to Rhapsody you will find them there.
"Andrea's Voice Silenced by Bulimia: Her Story and Her Mother's Journey Through
Grief Toward Understanding" by: Doris Smeltzer with Andrea Lynn Smeltzer
Foreword by Carolyn Costin, MA, MFT
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Andreas-Voice-Silenced-by-Bulimia/Doris-Smeltze\
r/e/9780936077017
Lynda and I thank you. We honestly do care and would like to offer our support
to those who reach out to us. You may Chat with me, Lynda, or the both of us
Online, via Instant Message, Offline via telephone toll-free telephone number,
and in person, i.e., We are interested in starting a telephone call tree or list
for peer support. Please let me or Lynda know your thoughts. Your input is
important and valued. Let us know what your expectations are, what you like,
dislike, what to discuss, add, etc.
This "Group offers support for all!" This includes family members, friends,
etc. We would like to hold nightly Chats, monthly Chats, in person Chat for
those who live in our area. The support we or we offer extends to visiting you
and/or your loved ones at the hospital or treatment center. Unfortunately, I or
we are only able to do these visits to hospitals or treatment centers within
California. Someday soon, we hope this will change. Everything is done on a
volunteer basis and it is free There is life without Eating Disorders and/or
Exercise Disorders no matter you age, sex, race, religion, etc.
Everything that is said and/or sent to us is confidential.
If you have any questions, comments, or concerns, please feel free to contact
one or the both of us.
You voice matters! You are not alone! Again, we thank you.
We care,
Erika Stewart, Founder, Eating Disorders Support for All (EDSA)
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and
Lynda Lutz, RN, Co-Founder, Eating Disorders Support for All (EDSA)
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