I was kinda curious, and wanted to take the conversation in a
more productive avenue
Before you developed your eating disorder did you:
have a family member with anorexia or bulimia?
have an obese parent?
were overweight yourself?
have a friend(s) who helped you into the illness, had it
(her)him-self,?
were in an appearance concious family?
had high expectations for yourself or given by your family, were
perfectionistic, or ob/compulsive in other ways

Have you ever been hospitalized for the ED? and how was that?
just curious, i want to get well, understand it better, i want to live.