Dear Old Dog,

during perimenopause and menopause the lining of the uterus gets thin.
it becomes painful for the women to have intercourse.
lubrication can help.

you need to discuss with her if intercourse is hurting her inside. if so
you can help that problem by using ky jelly or johnsons baby oil.

the mind set of a women during these times does differ from her previous
self.
we become moody, anger quickly, have trouble sleeping

if she is in perimenopause she has her period but never knows when and if it
will come again. this along will make her irritable......not knowing.

she can get on natural phytoestrogens to help with all of her symptoms
to good products are
rejuvenate for women caplets
and
rejuvenate natural balancing progesterone cream
the should both be used at this time in her life.
you can find both products at
http://www.herbals-unlimited.com/women_products.htm

Trish
----- Original Message -----
From: "tomtwocat" <tomtwocat@...>
To: <menopausal@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, July 24, 2006 9:03 PM
Subject: [menopausal] Need advice in a big way


> Hello to all! Ladies I am in desperate need for advice. My wife
> says she thinks she is going through the change. She's 49 years
> young. She has been very negative about "us" for the last several
> months. I think I know the answer you might give - that her thinking
> is impaired by going through the change, but I for sure need to
> discuss this further with someone as she recently told me that she
> wants a divorce. She has not been herself in many months as I said
> above. I know next to nothing about all of this and would love to
> hear from someone with a lot more knowledge about this than I have.
> I just found this site and have had no time to read through any of
> it. I am nothing more than a "nut case" now. I would very much
> appreciate any information from anyone who has something to offer.
> For me, it would be much easier if anyone with a reply simply e-
> mailed me directly at shields9939@... as I am currently
> trying to type up a very lengthly e-mail to her. Yes, we are
> seperated...
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> Thank you so much for any help anyone may offer.
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> Signed,
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> Visit this site for natural hormonal products that you can actually feel
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> http://www.herbals-unlimited.com/women_products.htm
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