Hello all, my friend's 16 year old son has been told he has Marphan's.
We live in Pensacola, FL and she is having trouble finding good Dr.'s
and support groups. I am going to encourage her to join in the chats
you all have......her son has had collapsed lungs, heart condition (not
sure the name of the one he has), scoliosis, hurts severly and
definetly falls into the physical description. If anyone can offer any
suggestions for her on how to handle all of this, it would be
appreciated. She is feeling very scared and very alone at this
point......and of course, some of the Dr's he sees say its not
Marfan's.....which upsets her more, but he was dianosed with it up
North.....take care.
Christy
The eyes are afected 85% of the time. My daughter had terrible styes from about 1 hear old until about 6. She would have to go to the doctor to have them lanced they were so big. Anybody out there know about this,
Nancy
Suzie Glassey <soozeege@...> wrote:
I and my 2 children have marfans and all I am is a little short sighted with the eyes
Sue
Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
By what age would the eyes be affected with Marfan... I have read up on some things on the internet, and it looks as if Marfan ALWAYS affects the eyes in some manner....
is this from birth, or older?
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thank you for the information. Did you have surgery? I hope that your feeling much better now. My daughter died from her dissection. She was alone when it happened and did not complain to her brother or myself when we talked to her shortly before. Did you thrash around. I cant figure out how she gor 2 knots on her head. There are just so many unanswered questions. I've been told not to try to be the Jerry Lewis of marfans but If i can continue to gain knowelege of things i will do everything in my power to make this terrible syndrome public knowledge So many doctors know so little about it. If a 13 year old child goes to the er and is complaining of these symptoms that is not what the first thing that dr's look for due to his age. they need to be informed. Anyone with similar information please write in. Thank You , I keep all marfans people in my daily prayers.
God bless,
Nancy
Hi Nancy
I wish I could tell you that before a dissection there are symptoms but for me there were none, it just happened. Within 30 seconds I dropped to my knees and couldn't breath. Incredible pain initally in my chest but soon went through to my back with each heart beat incredible pain. The best thing you can do is tell the people around this person what to look for so they can immediately get help suspecting a dissection. Nothing can be done but to get an ambulance immediately. I can remember not wanting to lie down as this made breathing worse and pain more intense. Fortunately i was with a friend who knew what to do and rang my husband who rang an ambulance. I could have done neither. There was no warning signs for me.I don't wish to scare you but this is how it was or me.
Sue
Nancy Collins <njcjesus@...>
wrote:
hello.
I thought that there were many test that would determine marfans. My daughter had every symptom of it. She had scoloisis. mitral valve prolaspe, a heart murmer, very long fingers and arms. a pectus escavatum. eye problems, strech marks on her hips. high roof of her mouth crowded teeth, (she had to have 9 teeth pulled to get her braces on) flat feet. the one strang sting was her blood type. it was ab negative has anybody heard of rare blood with marfans? Also to anybody who had a dissection please write in and let me know the symptoms that you had when it happened. did you pass out. were you aware that something was going on? Ihave alot of questions that I cant seem to get answered,
Thank You.
Nancy larie beck <ty_ree_b@...> wrote:
Bridgette,
Im so glad to hear that your daughters eyes are healthy!
Was she suspected of having marfans because of her build, or was there other concerns?
I truly hope that she does not have marfans, and she just is built like someone that does. And even if she where to have marfans it sounds like she wouldnt be affected that much by it any time soon.
One of the things that gives me hope ,is that my sons biggest problem has been his eyes, ( wich have been treated very succesfully by doc's) and technology is getting better every day. So by the time any other problems may arise they might have better treatment or a cure.
Thanks for sharing your good news Bridgett!
A question to the elders of the group... I thought only a
genetacyst could confirm or exclude marfans based on results from various specialysts ( cardio, optholmolagy, orthopedic) and a family history? Is that not the case?
Hugs to everyone,
Larie
Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
I first want to thank you for all of your kind words and thoughts. I know I am the way I am because of seeing my daughter go through open heart surgery for heart defects at 4 days of age. It truly has humbled me and my husband.
I took my daughter to the opthomologist this morning. He said her fingers were hyperflexible, and she had a high arch in the roof of her mouth..he looked at a couple of things before checking her eyes out. He said my daughter's doctor sent over another child a couple of weeks ago that the eye doctor
confirmed was Marfans.
he mentioned, he too was thought to have Marfans when he was younger, but did not. So, he was well aware what Marfans is, and what to look for. He is also an MD and a eye surgeon.
He did a thorough exam of our daughter, and said her eyes looked very healthy, and that her eyeglasses prescription would remain the same, a very weak prescription, she doesn't need strong eyeglasses for distance. He said he saw no retinal detachment, and no signs or symptoms of Marfan in her eyes at all!!!
I asked him if it was too early to tell..he said he probably would have seen something at her age already ..she is almost 11.
he wants to see her back in a year from now. for a check up.
My daughter will continue to have her heart checkups, because she has a bicuspid aortic valve from birth we have to worry about.
Thank you everyone for your kindness, I guess our daughter just has a lot of genetic
body traits from a lot of relatives..thin, flexible hands, and lanky too.
Bridgette
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I wish I could tell you that before a dissection there are symptoms but for me there were none, it just happened. Within 30 seconds I dropped to my knees and couldn't breath. Incredible pain initally in my chest but soon went through to my back with each heart beat incredible pain. The best thing you can do is tell the people around this person what to look for so they can immediately get help suspecting a dissection. Nothing can be done but to get an ambulance immediately. I can remember not wanting to lie down as this made breathing worse and pain more intense. Fortunately i was with a friend who knew what to do and rang my husband who rang an ambulance. I could have done neither. There was no warning signs for me.I don't wish to scare you but this is how it was or me.
Sue
Nancy Collins <njcjesus@...> wrote:
hello.
I thought that there were many test that would determine marfans. My daughter had every symptom of it. She had scoloisis. mitral valve prolaspe, a heart murmer, very long fingers and arms. a pectus escavatum. eye problems, strech marks on her hips. high roof of her mouth crowded teeth, (she had to have 9 teeth pulled to get her braces on) flat feet. the one strang sting was her blood type. it was ab negative has anybody heard of rare blood with marfans? Also to anybody who had a dissection please write in and let me know the symptoms that you had when it happened. did you pass out. were you aware that something was going on? Ihave alot of
questions that I cant seem to get answered,
Thank You.
Nancy larie beck <ty_ree_b@...> wrote:
Bridgette,
Im so glad to hear that your daughters eyes are healthy!
Was she suspected of having marfans because of her build, or was there other concerns?
I truly hope that she does not have marfans, and she just is built like someone that does. And even if she where to have marfans it sounds like she wouldnt be affected that much by it any time soon.
One of the things that gives me hope ,is that my sons biggest problem has been his eyes, ( wich have been treated very succesfully by doc's) and technology is getting better every day. So by the time any other problems may arise they might have better treatment or a cure.
Thanks for sharing your good news
Bridgett!
A question to the elders of the group... I thought only a genetacyst could confirm or exclude marfans based on results from various specialysts ( cardio, optholmolagy, orthopedic) and a family history? Is that not the case?
Hugs to everyone,
Larie
Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
I first want to thank you for all of your kind words and thoughts. I know I am the way I am because of seeing my daughter go through open heart surgery for heart defects at 4 days of age. It truly has humbled me and my husband.
I took my daughter to the opthomologist this morning. He said her fingers were hyperflexible, and she had a high arch in the roof of her mouth..he looked
at a couple of things before checking her eyes out. He said my daughter's doctor sent over another child a couple of weeks ago that the eye doctor confirmed was Marfans.
he mentioned, he too was thought to have Marfans when he was younger, but did not. So, he was well aware what Marfans is, and what to look for. He is also an MD and a eye surgeon.
He did a thorough exam of our daughter, and said her eyes looked very healthy, and that her eyeglasses prescription would remain the same, a very weak prescription, she doesn't need strong eyeglasses for distance. He said he saw no retinal detachment, and no signs or symptoms of Marfan in her eyes at all!!!
I asked him if it was too early to tell..he said he probably would have seen something at her age already ..she is almost 11.
he wants to see her back in a year from now. for a check up.
My daughter will continue to have her heart checkups, because she
has a bicuspid aortic valve from birth we have to worry about.
Thank you everyone for your kindness, I guess our daughter just has a lot of genetic body traits from a lot of relatives..thin, flexible hands, and lanky too.
Bridgette
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I and my 2 children have marfans and all I am is a little short sighted with the eyes
Sue
Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
By what age would the eyes be affected with Marfan... I have read up on some things on the internet, and it looks as if Marfan ALWAYS affects the eyes in some manner....
is this from birth, or older?
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This group was wonderful when I dissected a few years ago. I knew everyone was thinking of me and that helped me to get through. We are a special bunch.
Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
Thanks so much for your posts/emails.
I have one thing to say.
I have never seen such a more caring wonderful group of people in my life.
Even if my daughter does not turn up having Marfan, I am very glad and blessed I have met all of you.!!
We will continue to have checks, our
daughter goes to the cardiologist the end of july.
Is the Aorta enlarged from early on?
After our daughters heart surgery as a newborn, her heart check ups have been fine. No enlargement at all. She will continue to go yearly for that. We do keep up with the appointments, to make sure our little girl stays healthy.
thank you everyone for your kindness!!!
Bridgette
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My Son is now 16. He is competitive in Fencing and is going to Nationals in July down in Augusta, Georgia. He is questioning why he has to take the atenolol saying that it makes it so his heart can't get any stronger. I am sure he has some valid information, however I am still going to take him to the MD so that my son can understand why he needs to take the medication. He has been really lucky so far with just orthopedic problems, but i don't want him to have any vascular problems. Lori in PA. I guess this was more to vent than anything, since he just kind of jumped on me about this.
Hi I have a 5 year old son whom was born with a BAV, he the had to
have was is called the Ross-Procedure. They removed his aortic
valve and toook his own pulmonary valve and transplanted it into the
aortic position. That was at age 11 months. Then Jason's valve
became very leaky causing other problems. At age 3 1/2 I went to
Cleveland Clinic and Dr. Mee was able to repair his aortic valve
(formally his pulmonary valve) U of M wanted to put in a machanical
valve and I felt there was other options. Anyway..... While Jason
was in surgery having his aortic valve repaired and another human
donor pulmonary valve put in they relized Jason had a huge 4.8
acending aortic aneurysum. They did some slight repair. The
aneurysum is now 2.9.
I was told that Jason will be followed as if he had Marfan. Though
he does not have all the characteristics.
He is on Enalapril and Atenolol. I am searching for others with
aortic aneurysums and how they deal with it. I know he can not play
any sports what so ever. Jason is extremly active so this scares me.
Also I am searching to find out what other blood pressure meds
others are on to treat there heart disorders.
Thank you,
Rhonda mom to Jackie 16 and Jason 4 1/2 AI, AS, PI, PS, acending
aortic root aneurysum told to treat it as if he has Marfans.
Hi Scott
Curious who you are seeing in NY Marfan clinic. I
have gone to NY Cornell Dr. Deveruex for the past 20
years but have never heard about a clinic.
But am interesested in any information of Dural
Ectasia. Especially who would evaulate it.
Thanks and good luck,
Sandi
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> Hello all.
>
> I'm checking in again with another question. As I'm
> seeing someone in
> the NY Marfan clinic next month, I was wondering
> about another
> criteria for evaluation.. dural ectasia. I'm
> learning more and more
> about Marfan and all of the related symptoms.
>
> How did you pursue this item for evaluation? Was it
> part of an
> orthopedic visit, rheumatologist visit or Marfan
> consultation?
>
> I do experience back pain on a regular basis and
> I've been through all
> of the other diagnostic criteria in preparation for
> the visit to the
> clinic next month.
>
> I was wondering when to pursue this..before or after
> the Marfan visit.
>
> Thanks! All of your replies and posts are very
> reassuring, comforting
> and inspirational.
>
> Scott
>
>
>
>
>
>
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us posted on how he's doing
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Hello..I just wanted to post a quick note..Austins mitral valve surgery went well, they were able to do a repair, and a repair better than they hoped for. This morning his cardiologist said he could not even hear a
murmur, before it was pronounced. Hes doing well after a rough night, they took him off the ventilator this morning, so far so good there. Thanks to all who have been a great source of support for us!
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Thanks for sharing your good news. Hope we will see you in chat when your get some time.
Hugs ,
Larie
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Ya I think there are a few things that are similar to Marfans.The first specialist we saw was the pediatric opthalmologist, because our son had dislocated lenses. He told us that there where a few conditions that could cause dislocated lenses.
That is why it is so inportand to see a geneticist, and a marfans specialist because they know the differences between the conidtions and can make the diagnosis. There is a blood test, the National Marfan Foundation news letter just had a article about the test. Mabey you could look it up on there site.
Our marf specialyst told us that our son had three body systems affected, his heart, eyes, and build, so the test was not necessary, and it is not very accurate anyway.
Ya know how no two snowflakes are ever alike? Its the same with people with marfans, some peoples eyes are never affected, or there heart is onley mildly affected , like our
son, some people have every possible marfans trait. Some, I have read about dont have any problems, and so they dont even know they have it till later in life, some babys are affected severly from birth.
Larie
Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
I have been doing more research and found that there are many other disorders that are similar in certain ways to marfan.. such as Shprintzen-Goldberg Syndrome
I would think the only way to know for sure what you have would be to get a genetics test? This would make sure you
wouldn't get a wrong diagnosis..
Hello..I just wanted to post a quick note..Austins mitral valve
surgery went well, they were able to do a repair, and a repair better
than they hoped for. This morning his cardiologist said he could not
even hear a murmur, before it was pronounced. Hes doing well after a
rough night, they took him off the ventilator this morning, so far so
good there. Thanks to all who have been a great source of support for
us!
I have been doing more research and found that there are many other
disorders that are similar in certain ways to marfan..
such as
Shprintzen-Goldberg Syndrome
I would think the only way to know for sure what you have would be to
get a genetics test? This would make sure you wouldn't get a wrong
diagnosis..
bridgette
Scott, wanted to wish you good luck with your visit, and to re-assure
you that NY has some of the best doctors around!
Our daughter had her Open heart surgery in NY when she was only 4 days
old.
We keep hearing that NY has some of the BEST doctors available in the
states!
Because of our miracle (our daughter) we also agree!
good luck to you,
Bridgette
Hello all.
I'm checking in again with another question. As I'm seeing someone in
the NY Marfan clinic next month, I was wondering about another
criteria for evaluation.. dural ectasia. I'm learning more and more
about Marfan and all of the related symptoms.
How did you pursue this item for evaluation? Was it part of an
orthopedic visit, rheumatologist visit or Marfan consultation?
I do experience back pain on a regular basis and I've been through all
of the other diagnostic criteria in preparation for the visit to the
clinic next month.
I was wondering when to pursue this..before or after the Marfan visit.
Thanks! All of your replies and posts are very reassuring, comforting
and inspirational.
Scott
Thanks so much for your posts/emails.
I have one thing to say.
I have never seen such a more caring wonderful group of people in my life.
Even if my daughter does not turn up having Marfan, I am very glad and
blessed I have met all of you.!!
We will continue to have checks, our daughter goes to the cardiologist
the end of july.
Is the Aorta enlarged from early on?
After our daughters heart surgery as a newborn, her heart check ups
have been fine. No enlargement at all. She will continue to go yearly
for that. We do keep up with the appointments, to make sure our little
girl stays healthy.
thank you everyone for your kindness!!!
Bridgette
Bridgette, My son has no sign of marfan syndrome in his eyes. Neither do I. However my mom had traumatic cataracts and when she had them done the doc said that she had major signs of marfan in them so i guess it doesn't always show up right away. My brother had signs from a child with dislocated lenses and got glaucoma at the age of 4 i think. Then they didn't diagnose him with marfan but that was 40 years ago. Hope this helps Lori in PA
By what age would the eyes be affected with Marfan...
I have read up on some things on the internet, and it looks as if
Marfan ALWAYS affects the eyes in some manner....
is this from birth, or older?
Well....my daughter doesn't have all the signs of Marfan.
She slender with long arms. She does wear eyeglasses for
nearsightedness (so do I and her father).
the doctor mentioned Marfan when he saw her build.
I came to find out that just two weeks ago this doctor diagnosed a
child that did indeed have Marfans. I guess he is keeping a close eye
on the children that come to his office, making sure he doesn't miss
anything, which is a good doctor.
My daughter does not have scoliosis, crowded teeth,chest wall problems.
she does not have flat feet, mitral valve prolapse, and some of the
other symptoms associated with Marfans.
My daughter has long arms (like a lot of her paternal side of the
family), she is flexible and was born with heart defects.
But the doctor did say that her heart defects are congenital, from
birth, and not associated with Marfan.
Although, he said the affected valve is a sign....
Now, I thought the mitral valve was the issue with Marfan? My daughter
has a problem with her bicuspid aortic valve , a different valve in
the heart...
The pediatrician said a genetecist could do a test, but he wanted to
send her to the eye doctor first and the cardiologist.
Yes, she has an appointment the end of July, she goes every year. She
was born with Transposition of the great arteries of her heart. She
was succesfully operated on at 4 days of age.
The Opthomologist said he didn't see ANY sign of Marfan by looking at
her eyes...
that is what I know for now.
Have a nice day everyone,
Bridgette
I thought that there were many test that would determine marfans. My daughter had every symptom of it. She had scoloisis. mitral valve prolaspe, a heart murmer, very long fingers and arms. a pectus escavatum. eye problems, strech marks on her hips. high roof of her mouth crowded teeth, (she had to have 9 teeth pulled to get her braces on) flat feet. the one strang sting was her blood type. it was ab negative has anybody heard of rare blood with marfans? Also to anybody who had a dissection please write in and let me know the symptoms that you had when it happened. did you pass out. were you aware that something was going on? Ihave alot of questions that I cant seem to get answered,
Thank You.
Nancy larie beck <ty_ree_b@...> wrote:
Bridgette,
Im so glad to
hear that your daughters eyes are healthy!
Was she suspected of having marfans because of her build, or was there other concerns?
I truly hope that she does not have marfans, and she just is built like someone that does. And even if she where to have marfans it sounds like she wouldnt be affected that much by it any time soon.
One of the things that gives me hope ,is that my sons biggest problem has been his eyes, ( wich have been treated very succesfully by doc's) and technology is getting better every day. So by the time any other problems may arise they might have better treatment or a cure.
Thanks for sharing your good news Bridgett!
A question to the elders of the group... I thought only a genetacyst could confirm or exclude marfans based on results from various specialysts ( cardio,
optholmolagy, orthopedic) and a family history? Is that not the case?
Hugs to everyone,
Larie
Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
I first want to thank you for all of your kind words and thoughts. I know I am the way I am because of seeing my daughter go through open heart surgery for heart defects at 4 days of age. It truly has humbled me and my husband.
I took my daughter to the opthomologist this morning. He said her fingers were hyperflexible, and she had a high arch in the roof of her mouth..he looked at a couple of things before checking her eyes out. He said my daughter's doctor sent over another child a couple of weeks ago that the eye doctor confirmed was Marfans.
he mentioned, he too was thought to
have Marfans when he was younger, but did not. So, he was well aware what Marfans is, and what to look for. He is also an MD and a eye surgeon.
He did a thorough exam of our daughter, and said her eyes looked very healthy, and that her eyeglasses prescription would remain the same, a very weak prescription, she doesn't need strong eyeglasses for distance. He said he saw no retinal detachment, and no signs or symptoms of Marfan in her eyes at all!!!
I asked him if it was too early to tell..he said he probably would have seen something at her age already ..she is almost 11.
he wants to see her back in a year from now. for a check up.
My daughter will continue to have her heart checkups, because she has a bicuspid aortic valve from birth we have to worry about.
Thank you everyone for your kindness, I guess our daughter just has a lot of genetic body traits from a lot of relatives..thin, flexible hands, and
lanky too.
Bridgette
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Im so glad to hear that your daughters eyes are healthy!
Was she suspected of having marfans because of her build, or was there other concerns?
I truly hope that she does not have marfans, and she just is built like someone that does. And even if she where to have marfans it sounds like she wouldnt be affected that much by it any time soon.
One of the things that gives me hope ,is that my sons biggest problem has been his eyes, ( wich have been treated very succesfully by doc's) and technology is getting better every day. So by the time any other problems may arise they might have better treatment or a cure.
Thanks for sharing your good news Bridgett!
A question to the elders of the group... I thought only a genetacyst could confirm or exclude marfans based on results from
various specialysts ( cardio, optholmolagy, orthopedic) and a family history? Is that not the case?
Hugs to everyone,
Larie
Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
I first want to thank you for all of your kind words and thoughts. I know I am the way I am because of seeing my daughter go through open heart surgery for heart defects at 4 days of age. It truly has humbled me and my husband.
I took my daughter to the opthomologist this morning. He said her fingers were hyperflexible,
and she had a high arch in the roof of her mouth..he looked at a couple of things before checking her eyes out. He said my daughter's doctor sent over another child a couple of weeks ago that the eye doctor confirmed was Marfans.
he mentioned, he too was thought to have Marfans when he was younger, but did not. So, he was well aware what Marfans is, and what to look for. He is also an MD and a eye surgeon.
He did a thorough exam of our daughter, and said her eyes looked very healthy, and that her eyeglasses prescription would remain the same, a very weak prescription, she doesn't need strong eyeglasses for distance. He said he saw no retinal detachment, and no signs or symptoms of Marfan in her eyes at all!!!
I asked him if it was too early to tell..he said he probably would have seen something at her age already ..she is almost 11.
he wants to see her back in a year from now. for a check up.
My
daughter will continue to have her heart checkups, because she has a bicuspid aortic valve from birth we have to worry about.
Thank you everyone for your kindness, I guess our daughter just has a lot of genetic body traits from a lot of relatives..thin, flexible hands, and lanky too.
Bridgette
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Be sure to stay on top of it until you are positive about the diagnosis. Our oldest son has no problems with his eyes but does have the dialation in the valves of his heart! Are you planning on also seeing a cardiologist? Remember that Marfans does not affect everyone the same way.
I hope that I have not burst your happy bubble but I do want you to be aware.
Debbie C.
Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
He did a thorough exam of our daughter, and said her eyes looked very healthy, and that her eyeglasses
prescription would remain the same, a very weak prescription, she doesn't need strong eyeglasses for distance. He said he saw no retinal detachment, and no signs or symptoms of Marfan in her eyes at all!!!
My daughter will continue to have her heart checkups, because she has a bicuspid aortic valve from birth we have to worry about.
Thank you everyone for your kindness, I guess our daughter just has a lot of genetic body traits from a lot of relatives..thin, flexible hands, and lanky too.
I am in Northern Florida.
I try to be the best Mom I can be..I didn't have the best Mother
growing up , and I am making sure that my children have the best they
could ever want! I love them unconditionally, and equally.
My son is 16 and not built like my daughter at all.
I am blessed for the two children I have.
I think when a family goes through an unexpected twist, like an
illness or a birth defect, they learn to love even more, and
appreciate the gifts they have been given.
My children are my life. Drives me crazy when I hear people say that
they want their unborn child to be a girl, or a boy, before they
know..I tell them "you want a healthy child"!!
but, only people who have had a sick child understand this.
thanks everyone for your kind words!
Have a great day!
Bridgette
I first want to thank you for all of your kind words and thoughts.
I know I am the way I am because of seeing my daughter go through open
heart surgery for heart defects at 4 days of age. It truly has humbled
me and my husband.
I took my daughter to the opthomologist this morning.
He said her fingers were hyperflexible, and she had a high arch in the
roof of her mouth..he looked at a couple of things before checking her
eyes out.
He said my daughter's doctor sent over another child a couple of weeks
ago that the eye doctor confirmed was Marfans.
he mentioned, he too was thought to have Marfans when he was younger,
but did not. So, he was well aware what Marfans is, and what to look
for. He is also an MD and a eye surgeon.
He did a thorough exam of our daughter, and said her eyes looked very
healthy, and that her eyeglasses prescription would remain the same, a
very weak prescription, she doesn't need strong eyeglasses for distance.
He said he saw no retinal detachment, and no signs or symptoms of
Marfan in her eyes at all!!!
I asked him if it was too early to tell..he said he probably would
have seen something at her age already ..she is almost 11.
he wants to see her back in a year from now.
for a check up.
My daughter will continue to have her heart checkups, because she has
a bicuspid aortic valve from birth we have to worry about.
Thank you everyone for your kindness,
I guess our daughter just has a lot of genetic body traits from a lot
of relatives..thin, flexible hands, and lanky too.
Bridgette
I too have a daughter with Marfans! She is now 19 years old and a wonderful, beautiful, statuesque young woman. We have known that Catie has Marfans since almost the minute she was born and we have dealt with the pain and her embarrassment every day but she is a much stronger woman for it! Let me assure you that they do grow from the experience.
We are a very supportive group here and will do everything and anything that we can to help you through all of this. I know that each and every person here is in my thoughts and prayeres every day and now you and your
family are included! Please feel free to contact me off the group if you care to. Let us know where you are and we can possibly get you connected with a support group or network.
Love hard and love long!
Debbie C. Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
I took my daughter to the pediatrician yesterday...
I also pray for the strength, if I get any other news on our daughter. I feel like I could not handle it. I cry easily. I don't want my daughter to see me cry. I love her so much, she is my life...
geesh, I am crying typing this!!!!
I am glad I found this group, Bless you all, Bridgette
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What state are you in? I have four daughters (and a four year old son) and two of my daughters have Marfan. One is 10, about to turn 11 and the other is 8. The two that do not have Marfan (at least not confirmed) are 6 and 12. I know about having princesses and how special they are.
Don't worry about crying, I do it too...we all do. It makes us real and our children intuitively know that Mom and Dad are human. I'd be willing to bet that you experience a depth of love, laughter and joy that is equal to and greater than the depth of sadness and hurt that you experience.
I have marfan also (I am 50 yrs. old with two aortic surgeries, and a few eye surgeries) and I can say unequivocally that the most powerful healing agent in all of my experiences is the love that exists between close family members. Early in life it was between my mom and
dad and me. Later, it was between me and my wife. Now it is the love between me, my wife, and my children. This is not to say don't use medical miracles, but never lose focus on the power of your heart.
I bet you're the greatest mom in the world.
OK Lee
Nancy Collins <njcjesus@...> wrote:
dear Bridgett,
I couldnt help but write to you after reading your letter. I know that things are really hard for you right now but the Lord will walk you through it. I was just heart broken
with the news that my daughter had marfans. I'd never heard of it before it just killed me !!! She wasnt diagnosed until she was around 11. She led a good happy life and I will cherish the times that we had. She had numerous surgeries on her spine for sc oliosis and numerous surgeries on other problems. You have to keep your faith in the Lord and let him direct your path. I know at times like these it can be pretty hard to keep you chin up and I will keep you in my prayers. Please e-mail me and if you would like I will give you my phone number if you ever need to talk. My e-mail address is njcjesus@....
god bless
Nancy Bridgette <Heartstitcher@...> wrote:
I took my daughter to the pediatrician yesterday... He measured her arm length, and was honest with me and said that he only had one
child in 30 years that had Marfan..he is not well educated on it. I searched the internet myself, and I think I know a little more now than before... He is not definite yet if our little girl has Marfan, she is going to the Opthomologist tomorrow. I can't help but be worried and upset. I have been crying a lot yesterday and today. I know I should be so worried until I know for sure. OUr daughter went through so much with open heart surgery for defects when she was born. I feel as if she has had enough to deal with already in her life. She is only 10 1/2 years old.
I truly believe there is a purpose for every life here on earth. What I don't understand is why some have to endure so much more than others.
I believe our God has a plan. I am so sorry so many of you are going through so much. I pray for all of you. I also pray for my daughter, and that things will turn out well. Even if she doesn't have Marfans, she
has heart defects that were corrected, but a bicuspid valve that may affect her in her future.
I also pray for the strength, if I get any other news on our daughter. I feel like I could not handle it. I cry easily. I don't want my daughter to see me cry. I love her so much, she is my life...
geesh, I am crying typing this!!!!
I am glad I found this group, Bless you all, Bridgette
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