Welcome. My name is Justin Urban founder of this group. This is an extension of my website which is
an ongoing transcription of the now out of print 1987 book "Shyness Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatment"
by Dr. Brian G. Gilmartin. Here you can discuss the
issues in the book, talk to others, and learn when the
website is updated. For those new, my website is at
http://www.angelfire.com/ab6/polepino/toc.html
As a personal aside, I'd like to hope that this book inspires
others, as it has myself, to begin to seek that help that they
so need and desire. As evidenced by Dr. Gilmartin's book,
and as he has hoped people realize as well, the help is out
there if you believe in it and know where to look. We can NOT
do this alone guys. We all, as human beings, deserve to love and be
loved.