hey

i think its quite new - i mean i'd never heard about it until it was
brought up in my last hospital visit.
I've been thinking about it and i think its going to be pretty
useless for me to go. I know i want children and i know my
girlfriend (soon to have a ring on her finger: shh dont tell her)
definately wants kids aswell.
And i know i will love my children however they look. I just wouldnt
want them to go though what i have. But on the upside i could try
and be there for them in a way my parents couldnt because i would
have been there.

But i think the biggest thing would be the guilt that my child would
be suffering and would have to have multiple operations and it would
be all my fault.

I'm 21 (22 in september)
How old are you guys and where are you from?
I'm from Ruislip North West London
My hospital is Watford

--- In leftclip@yahoogroups.com, Susie M <susiemurphyuk@y...> wrote:
>
> heyho
> Wow! Is that new? I mean the test you can get? I don't know if
i'd wanna know either! I mean i wouldn't be upset if my child had a
cl/p but i would worry about them because i know what it's like!
> Know what you mean by people not understanding, but you just have
to get on the best you can :)! Thats what i do :p
> cya xx Susie
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> bigpete_1984 <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
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> Thank you 2 emma
> Glad theres others to chat to
>
> :-)
>
>
> --- In leftclip@yahoogroups.com, ecroyston@a... wrote:
> >
> > I feel the same sometimes. I was changing into my uniform at
work
> this
> > evening, and I was thinking about my lip and nose. As a kid, I
> used to quite like
> > it because it was different - I was naive back then. I've had an
> operation to
> > make the lip more symmetrical, but the scar is just as
prominent,
> if not more
> > so.
> >
> > Don't feel as though you're alone and you can't talk about it -
> I'll listen.
> >
> > Emma
> >
> > xxx
> >
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