Hello All!
I wish to welcome all new members and visitors to this club. Let me encourage
you to
(1) pray for one another,
(2) share your views and experiences,
(3) visit the links, and
(4) visit my personal home page at
http://www.webspawner.com/users/punchbug2/index.html
May the Lord give us all the victory over whatever would hinder us in our walk
with Him, our worship of Him, and our service to Him. And, in the meantime, may
His grace be sufficient for us in every circumstance, every trial, and every
temptation.
In Christ's love,
Punchbug2
Only if we beleive in Him with all our beings and let Him inside our hearts and
listen to what he says, and do it just because He told us to: no questions
asked.
Well if any of y'all would like to receive the attachment "Alpiniste" (Cut your
ropes people), just tell me where to send it.
May Jesus be with us all each and every one,
Sincerely,
Mian.
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--- In ladybustersanonymous@y..., Mian Maroun <alostson@y...> wrote:
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> May Jesus's love be with you, all and every one.
> Well, I am not yet 100% over my fetish urges. I like belly punching too
much. But I have taken the resolution of trusting Jesus Christ and really accept
him in my life and not do anything that he doesn't want me to do.
> I have made progress, for example the time that I spend on the internet
surfing fetish sites has deminushed a great deal. I have passed from about 12
hours weekly to a maximum of one. I know that I should stop permenently and I am
still moving ahead and I am sure that with God's grace and omnipresence in my
life and the LOVE I carry for ALL other people this love that I hope to perfect
more and more every minute of every day, all this will make me stop everything
related to fetish urges.
> I have read about an advice to remove bad urges from Mark, well here's
what I pratically did, hope it comes in handy:
> First of all I removed all fetish sites from my favorites list, and
started gradually occupying myself with work, reading, taking courses of
something I enjoyed (I learned italian).
> I also thought too much of the way I felt after seeing fetish pics or
movies and of WHERE DOES IT LEAD at the end, I was never satisfied always wanted
one more pic one more site I then understood how one becomes slave to his
desires, to compare with the way I felt after going to the holy mass and
praying with the heart, how less frustrating I was how more loving Ibecame.
Before going to bed instead of fetish I read the Bible and I picture one Saint
that I particularly feel close to, that would be "Saint RAFKA" in my case
sitting with me and helping me every step of the way, and when I go to bed
instead of imagining a fetish adventure I repeat a sentence that comes to mind,
the first one was:
> I love you Jesus Christ, come into my heart and bless me my family my home
and all of my friends Amen.
> I'd say it slowly untill I fall asleep. Joining this group was also another
thing.
>
> One more thing: with all due respect I think that telling someone who
has fetish desires to not have urges because he doesn't want it to be done to
him is not very sure. Because most of the fetish people dream about somebody
beating them up as much as they like to beat up someone, as part of their
fantasy.
>
> May Jesus's love and grace help us to have more faith in Him,
> I love you Jesus Christ.
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> Here's a little something for y'all: Alpiniste. CUT YOUR ROPES PEOPLE.
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God bless you, Mian! Thank you so much for sharing your testimony and for the
good advice it contains. Perhaps it will encourage others to share as well how
God has or is in the process of delivering them from their fetishes.
With love in Christ,
Punchbug2
May Jesus's love be with you, all and every one.
Well, I am not yet 100% over my fetish urges. I like belly punching too
much. But I have taken the resolution of trusting Jesus Christ and really accept
him in my life and not do anything that he doesn't want me to do.
I have made progress, for example the time that I spend on the internet
surfing fetish sites has deminushed a great deal. I have passed from about 12
hours weekly to a maximum of one. I know that I should stop permenently and I am
still moving ahead and I am sure that with God's grace and omnipresence in my
life and the LOVE I carry for ALL other people this love that I hope to perfect
more and more every minute of every day, all this will make me stop everything
related to fetish urges.
I have read about an advice to remove bad urges from Mark, well here's
what I pratically did, hope it comes in handy:
First of all I removed all fetish sites from my favorites list, and
started gradually occupying myself with work, reading, taking courses of
something I enjoyed (I learned italian).
I also thought too much of the way I felt after seeing fetish pics or
movies and of WHERE DOES IT LEAD at the end, I was never satisfied always wanted
one more pic one more site I then understood how one becomes slave to his
desires, to compare with the way I felt after going to the holy mass and
praying with the heart, how less frustrating I was how more loving Ibecame.
Before going to bed instead of fetish I read the Bible and I picture one Saint
that I particularly feel close to, that would be "Saint RAFKA" in my case
sitting with me and helping me every step of the way, and when I go to bed
instead of imagining a fetish adventure I repeat a sentence that comes to mind,
the first one was:
I love you Jesus Christ, come into my heart and bless me my family my home and
all of my friends Amen.
I'd say it slowly untill I fall asleep. Joining this group was also another
thing.
One more thing: with all due respect I think that telling someone who
has fetish desires to not have urges because he doesn't want it to be done to
him is not very sure. Because most of the fetish people dream about somebody
beating them up as much as they like to beat up someone, as part of their
fantasy.
May Jesus's love and grace help us to have more faith in Him,
I love you Jesus Christ.
Here's a little something for y'all: Alpiniste. CUT YOUR ROPES PEOPLE.
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Hello All!
I came to the Lord in the 1960's as a result of listening regularly (with an
open heart) to Christian radio. One program, in particular, was the deciding
factor in my final acceptance of Jesus as Lord and Savior. That program is a
weekly dramatic series called "UNSHACKLED!" It features true stories of real
people whose lives have been redeemed from alcohol, drugs, and, well, you name
it. Why not take a minute just now to visit
http://www.unshackled.org/www-unshackled-org/listen_online.chk?AOLHelp=992527561\
.943.308.1&ServerName=www.unshackled.org
and click on the logo "On the Air" to hear the latest episode. You may be VERY
glad you did!
With love in Christ,
Punchbug2
--- In ladybustersanonymous@y..., mark4529 <no_reply@y...> wrote:
> Hi, Im mark and Im in college right now. but I am constantly dreaming
> about when I get my own place that I will kidnap a woman and beat the
> shit out of her. I was thinking of dating women instead, but it seems
> so much more fun to kidnap them and make them do whatever I want. How
> can I make dating more fun and the idea of kidnapping seem bad?
Hi Mark!
>
> Thanks for joining this club!
>
> To answer your question, like most members of this forum, you've got
mental/emotional problems in your relationship with women. Let me suggest this,
however, right off the bat:
>
> Put yourself in a woman's place. How would YOU like it if someone were to
kidnap YOU and then beat YOU up? Sound appealing? If not, you're on the right
track to overcoming this desire. Remember what Jesus said: "Do unto others as
you would have others do unto you." If you don't want others to brutalize you
and violate your freedoms, don't even THINK about doing it to them.
> Have you visited my homepage at
>
>http://www.webspawner.com/users/punchbug2/index.html
>
> It tells how I overcame my particular fetish and gives good advice to others
about overcoming their unwanted urges and impulses.
>
> Check it out!
>
> Have a great day,
>
> Punchbug2
Hi, Im mark and Im in college right now. but I am constantly dreaming
about when I get my own place that I will kidnap a woman and beat the
shit out of her. I was thinking of dating women instead, but it seems
so much more fun to kidnap them and make them do whatever I want. How
can I make dating more fun and the idea of kidnapping seem bad?
Hi Gang!
Every now and then, I'll get a message from someone who says something like
this:
"OK, I can see where real violence against women is wrong, but what about
fantasy violence? What's the harm in that?"
My answer to that query is this:
"What's wrong with standing in a pool of gasoline?"
Now, let me explain.
I wondered the very same thing--about real versus fantasy violence--until one
day the Lord gave me a sign that fantasy violence against women is also wrong.
What was the sign? Well, picture this scenario:
You pull into a gas station and stop in front of a gas pump. You get out of your
car, open your car's gas cap, take the hose from the gas pump, put the nozzle
into your gas tank line, and then press the lever on the nozzle. You watch the
guage on the gas pump register gallon after gallon. Another car pulls into the
gas station and the driver points to the ground on which you are standing. You
look down and, lo and behold, you are standing in a pool of gasoline, ready to
ignite at the smallest spark! What happened? You did not put the nozzle on the
right place.
That was exactly my experience when I asked the Lord to show me--in clear,
unequivocal terms--whether, in fact, fantasy violence against women was wrong.
Never, in all of my over fourty years of driving experience, had I ever had an
experience like that, nor--since getting my act together in regard to
women--have I had another one like it.
I was aware of the statement by Edgar Cayce (one of the greatest psychic talents
of all times) that "Thoughts are things, and create miracles or crimes as their
currents run." I was also aware of the scriptural passage which says that as a
man "thinketh in his heart, so is he." (Proberbs 23:7) And, finally, I was aware
that God destroyed the ancient world with a flood because "God saw that the
wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the
thoughts of his heart was only evil continually." (Genesis 6:5) But all of that
really did not register with me until that fateful day when I found myself
standing in enough gasoline, had it ignited, to have burnt me to a crisp.
That was the sign I was looking for, and that is my answer to anyone who wonders
whether or not--as some contend--fantasy violence against women is harmless.
LET THIS BE A WORD TO THE WISE!
With kindest regards,
Punchbug2
Hi All!
The membership of this group now stands at 332, and yet it seems I am just about
the only person who ever posts. This has to be the quietest bunch of 332 people
on earth! :)
I know that this particular addiction/fetish is a very personal matter, and one
that we are not necessarily very proud of, but...does anyone care to share how
he or she, by God's grace and with God's help, was able to overcome it?
I posted my story on my homepage for all to read. Now, as an enouragement to me
and the other members of this group, please tell us YOUR story!
With kindest regards,
Punchbug2
Hi All!
I just wanted to wish everyone a most happy and blessed Easter! May it be a time
of reflecting upon all the Lord has done for us, not the least of which is
suffer and die on a rugged Roman cross for our sins. But--praise God!--He is
risen! He is risen indeed! And because He lives, we too shall live. In fact, He
ever lives--not only to make intercession for us at the Throne of Grace, but
also to bring into our hearts, minds, and lives healing, mercy, and deliverance!
Let us call upon Him while He is near, and look to Him for the provision of our
every need.
Do remember to pray for one another!
Love in Christ,
Punchbug2
Hello!<br><br>Thanks for stopping by!<br><br>I
just want to take this opportunity to welcome all the
visitors and new members to this club and to encourage you
to<br><br>(1) pray for one another,<br><br>(2) share your views
and experiences,<br><br>(3) visit the links,
and<br><br>(4) visit my personal home page.<br><br>May the Lord
give each one of us the victory over whatever would
hinder us in our walk with Him, our worship of Him, and
our service to Him. And, in the meantime, may His
grace be sufficient for us in every circumstance, every
trial, and every temptation.<br><br>In Christ's
love,<br><br>Punchbug2 <br>
Dear Debra,<br><br>Thank you for joining my club
and sharing this information from the standpoint of
the "bustee" rather than the "buster"! We DO have an
awesome God! :)<br><br>In Christ's love,<br><br>Punchbug2
I was a victim of such a relationship and it took
years of healing to overcome, but God has miraculously
proven Himself to be the Healer that we need. I am so
grateful to see those who are recovering from this and are
reaching out to help others. Thank you for sharing and
ministering.<br><br>Restored
Hi All!<br><br>I just want to take this
opportunity to welcome all the new members to this club and
to encourage you to<br><br>(1) pray for one
another,<br><br>(2) share your views and experiences,<br><br>(3)
visit the links, and<br><br>(4) visit my personal home
page.<br><br>May the Lord give each one of us the victory over
whatever would hinder us in our walk with Him, our worship
of Him, and our service to Him. And, in the
meantime, may His grace be sufficient for us in every
circumstance, every trial, and every temptation.<br><br>In
Christ's love,<br><br>Punchbug2
God bless you, Jodi! What a lovely message! Thank
you ever so much! May your New Year be bright,
blessed, and as beautiful as you are! And may the Lord
give us both the victory over every weight, every
care, and the sin that so easily besets us!
Hi Punchbug, hope your Christmas was nice and hope you have a safe and Happy New
Year too. May God bless you in all you do this coming year take care. (smile)
Hi!<br><br>I just wanted to take this opportunity
to wish all my recovering female bashers a wonderful
Christmas and a bright and blessed New Year!<br><br>Let
your New Year's resolution be that you will try to be
extra kind and loving to women. And pray that God will
minister healing and grace in your relationship with
women--for nothing is impossible with Him!<br><br>In
Christ's love,<br><br>Punchbug2
Hi All!<br><br>In terms of overcoming your
addiction to real and/or fantasy violence against women, I
believe the most important step you can take is to accept
Jesus into your heart as Lord and Savior. Once you do
that, He becomes your divine ally, your helper, your
enabler on the road to recovery. <br><br>For more
information along those lines, read my Christian testimony
at<br><br><a href=http://www.webspawner.com/users/punchbug22000/index.html
target=new>http://www.webspawner.com/users/punchbug22000/index.html</a><br><br>C\
heck it out, and have a wonderful
day!<br><br>Punchbug2
Again, its me...:)<br>The difference between
Christianity and all other religions is not that a person "has
a relationship with God". It is that a person has a
certain faith, given by that God, in that God. The
difference between 'born agains' and Christians, is that
'born agains' focus on their 'relationship' with God,
rather than on God. Do you see the difference? One looks
at the actions of the believer (which amount to
nothing, it is grace not works which saves), rather than
the actions of God. Christianity declares that all
sin is defeated for all time, 'born agains' demand
some act or work on the believers part to overcome
sin, as if we, as humans, could. Christians insist God
chooses us, while 'born agains' insist that we can choose
God.<br>These are partly why 'born agains' have such rises and
falls in their faiths, and keep getting physically
baptised over and over again, and why Christians keep
plodding along (How many Assembly of God denominations
have grown and folded in a few years, and why is
Catholicism ['Standard'] still here?)<br>This is also why
'born agains' have so many people leave their faiths
embittered and spiteful, rather than the amicable partings
of Catholicism - Christians know that God did not
promise to make this world a wonderful, sin-free place.
He promised us the next one would be better.
Well said and accepted by be. Just curious what
your fetish is may I ask?. My fetish is seing one girl
pin another in a school-girl pin after a playful
wrestling match. I do not get tuned on by watching
catfights that have violent, curseing and nude women
ripping each other apart. That's not me. Something pretty
innocent you would think. I have had this fetish as far
back as a very young child. I always wonderd how and
why this fetish came into my life. I never asked for
it either and I thought I would out grow it but here
I am 47 yrs old and still chasing after it. Is it
something God gave me to enjoy or is it something un
natural that God would like for me to overcome. I wonder
why female wrestling is tied so closely to porn. I
guess if you really don't believe in one God or the
bible then perhaps you would not feel guilty having a
fetish. I guess I do feel guilty or would not have joind
this club. I am not here to preach to or judge anyone.
I hope to find answers.
Guys,<br>Suppose you are going to drive your car.
You get in, you close the door, you fasten the seat
belt, you start the motor...wait a minute. You fasten
the seat belt... you prepare for the odd chance that
an accident may happen. You are not being negative,
you are being realistic in knowing that bad things,
unplanned things, or, just plain things happen. When I make
a date with a woman, I bring a book, because there
is a chance she will stand me up. I am not being
negative, I am preparing for the reality that this woman
can be deceptive and dishonest.<br>Is it negative to
think that "all" women are gifts, rather than "some"? I
think that some women have cheated on their husbands,
abused their bodies, stood men up, lied, coveted... etc
,etc. What I say, realistically, is that no one human
is perfect, but some may behave better than
others.<br>Thank you
Hello!<br><br>There are numerous recovery
programs currently available to help people deal with
addictions to drugs, alcohol, sex, etc. They can be
classified as faith-based or secular, twelve step or
non-twelve step. My former wife and both her parents
obtained victory over alcohol using the faith-based,
twelve step program developed by Alcoholics Anonymous.
In my opinion, the program most likely to succeed
for lady busters is the faith-based, twelve step
program, but with a MUCH greater emphasis upon a personal
relationship with God through saving faith in Jesus Christ.
Perhaps the best example of that type of program--and the
program which I personally recommend--is Christians in
Recovery. For more information, visit
<br><br><a href=http://www.christiansinrecovery.com
target=new>http://www.christiansinrecovery.com</a><br><br>Check it
out!<br><br>Thanks, and have a wonderful
day!<br><br>Punchbug2
Hi! <br><br>I just wanted to welcome everyone to
my club for recovering female bashers, "Lady Busters
Anonymous." I hope your membership proves to be a fruitful
and rewarding experience and that, by the grace of
God, you will indeed be given the victory--even as I
was--over your addiction to real and/or fantasy violence
against women. <br><br>God loves you, and so do I!
<br><br>With kindest regards, <br><br>Punchbug2 <br>
QUIT THE LOOKS THING!!! Mentioning is one thing,
but we have gone too far. Looks are a woman's thing,
and we must not play that game. We should not care
what the world or humanity cares about our looks near
as to what God is concerned about.<br>About my
'negative' attitude, more later...
You know, I looked at the picture of you in your
Yahoo! profile, and you're not really a bad looking guy
after all. You look a lot like a younger brother of
mine, who has been happily married for many years. I
think, more than anything else, it's your negative
attitude toward women that is keeping you from having a
succesful relationship with one.