ok here is the deal- My current girlfriend who I care about very much
is not tight at all- she has actually commented to me that she likes
having sex when she is not too wet as that way it feels better for me,
and she also made a comment about being so big she could fit a horse.

I really care about her and am able to please her but I think sex
might be more enjoyable for both of us if she did some kegels or got
the kegelmaster (moreso for her- I really enjoy the sex we are
having). We did have a bad argument when we were talking about sex and
she said that size matters but technique can make up for that.

I say that because I want to know the best way to approach the subject
with her without upsetting her.

I am very willing to try anything I can to make things better for us
(sexually and ohterwise) but I don't think she is as willing. How can
I bring this up to her? The main reason I want to bring it up to her
is so she can enjoy sex more- but I think she will think it is because
of the comment she made about size.

PLease advise....