Hi Holly, the things I've manifested most successfully all seem to
be to do with relationships! If I have something I want someone to
say or do, that always seems to happen - and it's usually related to
my insecurities, and wanting some confirmation that people like me,
or wanting people to listen to me! I suppose those things are still
the most important for me!

For instance, I wanted my mother to welcome me, treat me as an
important or special person, at least equal to her friends. When I
was thinking that in a 'wouldn't it be great if' kind of way, at a
time I was actually quite angry with her, it was without any hope at
all it would happen. But that evening I went round to drop something
off, and she did everything I'd imagined! She invited me in to meet
her friends, introduced me properly, and made me feel very welcome
and special. That, believe it or not, was the first time I can
remember her doing that! Maybe I'd not noticed it before, but she
tended to ignore me; which of course made me feel pretty bad! Since
then she's made it clear she's happy to see me and we're getting on
really well.

That sort of thing's happened with friends, too; but not quite as
dramatically. It can be a simple remark that answers a question or
doubt I've got, very often. When I feel someone doesn't appreciate
me, that sort of thing. It doesn't happen often now because I've
learned not to believe the doubts enough to get upset over them! But
the interesting thing is, those 'wouldn't it be great if' remarks
only happen after I've cleared away any negative emotions! Which
confirms the law, if you want to change things outside, work on your
inner world first!

I've noticed with my flat-mate, who's got into a habit of watching
lots of tv and not going out much, if I bless her, she comes out of
her room and cheers up a bit! That's happened several times; usually
it takes about 2 or 3 minutes. I haven't told her what I've done,
but I think I may have to soon!