John,
How did she respond to you when you told her about
your ileostomy and when she saw it? We all have this
part of us that feels we will be rejected but we
always hope for acceptance.

Darius


> Having been in an unhappy relationship for so long,
> and with all my
> other problems I never expected to be attractive to
> anyone ever again.
> Now having been "single" for the past couple of
> years I have been
> very surprised to find it is no more difficult for
> me to have a full
> and bouncy relationship than any other divorced man
> with children –
> that is not easy but very far from impossible. And
> once you get to
> know some one its who you are that is important.
> This is despite the
> fact the I feel my bag is a hideous disfigurement
> that has on
> occasion (3am when it comes unstuck usually) filled
> me with the
> deepest depression.

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