I understand how you feel even tho' I just had my surgery not even
two months ago, it makes one feel like they are now damaged goods and
that no one would want you cause you have something very very
different about you that is no easy to deal with even from our own
point of view cause it does tend to limit us and our thinking. I too
wonder if anyone will ever "want me" cause I am not that "sexy" with
a bad attached to my side and it is a bit unsightly for astetic
purposes. But in all of this I know that there is someone out there
for me who will love me and want me regardless of the bag 'cause they
will see me for who I am and I know that the same is for you Jane.

Darius

--- In ileostomy@yahoogroups.com, Jane Faul <miss_jane70301@y...>
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