Lindsay's search for a doula has brought an interesting topic to the table... What are the expectations of a doula?

 

I was thinking that, since we have moms and doulas alike on our list, perhaps it would be a good discussion.

 

Doulas, what do you believe your role is for the laboring woman?  Do you see yourselves as nurturers and caretakers, or patient advocates, or someone to guide the parents through? Perhaps all of that or some of that, to varying degrees?

 

Moms, what do you want from your doula?  Do you prefer someone who will sit aside while you labor, only assisting when called for? Do you want someone who will step in and say something if your OB, say, reaches for a scalpel to perform an unwanted episiotomy?  Do you want someone who will suggest new laboring positions, or show your partner how to use counter pressure to relieve back labor? 

 

It seems the most successful doula-client relationships stem from clear communication and understanding about what your expectations are.

 

Thoughts?

 

-Rachel