Dear Kim,
My goodness, what a tough spot to be in. To daily have to choose
between being a good spouse and a good parent. I don't have any good
advice, because I definately haven't figured it out myself. Just ask
any of our neighbors! hee hee! It is not always easy (because I get
frustrated myself), but humor seems to be the only tool I have to
defuse situations. Well, that and prayer! In fact, I think I need to
change spots where I pray, because my carpet is going to have a
strange looking hole soon from all the wear!hee hee It is so tough
though, the kids get angry because, as you said, it doesn't even make
sense most of the time. I think talking with others who understand
what your going through will help, because most people aren't going
to "get it". Well, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
LeAnn