yeah i'm from the uk,it's unusual for people in the uk to talk about this,
americans don't seem to care really they have loads of message boards and
that. well i find out 7 years ago ans only in the last six months done
something about it. using aldara and it seems to be working. i have had a
few partners that no about it but then there are others that i don't trust
to tell. it's hard work really and it's got to the point now that it has
split me and him up cos i can't bring my self to sleep with him or tell him
why. so i've made the decision not to get involved with anyone till they
have all gone!


>From: hunniebunny21 <no_reply@yahoogroups.com>
>Reply-To: hpvuk@yahoogroups.com
>To: hpvuk@yahoogroups.com
>Subject: [HPV UK] Re: Hi, just joined
>Date: Wed, 17 Mar 2004 18:10:43 -0000
>
>Well, I havent had any symptoms for a few months now. Ive got a
>boyfriend as well who i gave the virus to before i knew i had it.
>When i found out what i'd done i was horrified but he took it really
>well, even supported me when i had an irregular smear test and was
>really scared. He, however has symptoms now and although i know i
>shouldnt, i have a go at him for not getting it sorted because its a
>reminder of what happened.
>I know who gave it to me, i find that hard but as time has gone by i
>just realized i cant let in run my life. Its harder when you do
>have symptoms but telling my best friend helped a lot because she
>didnt judge me at all, in fact it turned out that she has something
>similar.
>Do u live in england? I agree with an earlier message from someone
>that us Brits are rubbish when it comes to dealing with and talking
>about this sort of thing. I've been desperate to get it off my
>chest but i feel like i'd be judged.
>I do worry though that if my relationship did not work out whether i
>would find another person who would understand how it happened and
>realize that i wasnt a tart or sleeping around that i was just
>unlucky and too trusting of my last partner who knew he had it and
>didnt tell me. Are you in a relationship or have you had any since
>you found out you had the virus?
>I have turned into a bit of an agony aunt now though, always warning
>people about safe sex and telling them that condoms still dont
>protect against everything so at least i feel like it hasnt been for
>nothing.
>xxx
>
>

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