Thank you for your reply and advise,it does help to have others out
there that can relate to what im going through,by the way im in
England and over here it seems much less talked about than in the
US,typical of us brits,( bury our heads in the sand mentality maybe)
A strange thing i keep feeling, is that i almost wish
i caught this from a fling with a female, then if i tell my wife
shed at least hate me and maybe not be as shocked as me having sex
with a man, i know that probably sounds crazy and makes no
differance to some as i relise cheating is cheating, its just the
1st shock is enough for her to find out iv got this but to find out
iv had sex with a man will devastate her even more,shes a fantastic
loyal lady and i beleive with out any sordid strange veiws on
sex,all she wants in life is to be loved and love her family
back,not cope with shit like this thats not any of her own doing, i
am with out doubt undeserving of her but this situation iv put us in
is unfathamble to me, if i tell her i break her heart and if i dont
i risk her health, i know what most will say, tell her!! her health
is the most important!!, i agree but at the same time cant help
wondering if she will catch it from me as i only have it on my anus
and she doesnt go near that area ever, maybe im clutching at sraws
(god knows) iv read lots of conflicting evidance some to support my
theory and some to disclaim it, so who realy does knows?
Its early days for me yet only having found this out
5 days ago, i still feel in shock,i have so many mixed thoughts
running through my head,all my doctor said to me was you have viral
warts ,so well burn them off ,it will be painfull for a while after
and that was it,no indepth conversation about it nothing, but then
thats the way they are over here in the uk, i cant even speak to him
when i want to becuase its a national health hospital and i will
only see him on the day of the surgery,i didnt even know it was
called HPV till i looked it all up on the net.
Any way thanks again for listening to me and ill
keep you informed.
regards:dave (deno)