Thanks!
I hope all is well with you, and thanks again for all your help and
wise advice.
Vixen
--- In hpvsinglesseattlenw@yahoogroups.com, Jeremiah none
<jhr3love@y...> wrote:
> Hi Vixen, My advice for anyone who thinks that they may have been
exposed but haven't shown signs yet... is to keep on living your
life as if you haven't had it. There's no need to worry and think
that you have Genitalwarts if you haven't had a breakout yet. Once
you do have a breakout, it's your responsiblitiy to tell your
partner. It's the responsible and respectable thing to do, "how
would you like it if your partner had HIV and didn't tell you?!!!"
(worldwide 2002; 40 mil people had HIV, 5 mil become infected yr, 3
mil died yr) But then again, if everyone was telling the truth STDs
wouldn't be such a problem. Have fun, but be careful ;) let me know
if you have any other questions... J
>
> vixenvibrant <vixenvibrant@y...> wrote:Hello~
> Yeas, I did know that the ones I had on my fingers were a strain
of
> HPV. I've heard that there are a lot of different kinds too. It's
> pretty creepy, actually. We didn't have oral contact, just some
> mutual masturbation type stuff, so hopefully I will be okay. It's
> sad because he was the best sexual partner I ever had, but there's
> no way in hell that I would have any kind of sex with him now. I
> know that anyone I am with could have it, but knowing for sure
that
> he does gives me the willies. I have made a point, at my Dr's
> suggestion, to notify any new partners that I had a partner who
> developed it, and to get regular pap tests. He said he's never
going
> to have sex again, but from what I heard, he is, and on his own
> admittal, he is not going to notify those he has been with about
it.
> I notified one girl I knew, but felt funny spreading
his "business".
> I didn't know what else to do but to empower her with the
knowledge.
> *oy vey*
> Vixen
> --- In hpvsinglesseattlenw@yahoogroups.com, Jeremiah none
> <jhr3love@y...> wrote:
> > Hi Vixen, You said that you have had a wart before. Did you know
> that a reg wart is a strain of hpv. There is suppossedily almost
> 100 strains of hpv and only about (i have heard) 15 or so strains
> actually causes the genital warts your ex had. You can certainly
> become infected by touching a wart, but as far as fluid
> secretions.... i really don't know?!!
> > You have to remember that ANY FUILD, including "precum", cum, or
> any discharge containing dna from your bf can infact infect you if
> it does find a way into you body. If he gave you oral than you
may
> contract it, as well. There is such a thing as "Oral HPV WARTS!
They
> have the same symptoms as genital but inside your mouth and
throat.
> It is a fairly uncommon type but, i have heard that it is a very
> painful kind and becoming more common. Only about 5 percent
> actually get this kind. It is contracted via Oral sex. I really
can
> not answer your fluid question. Because as far as i know, you
could
> have had oral sex, not swallowed but still contracted it, or
> just ...."wewww i touch the cum with my finger" kinda touch.? What
> kind of contact did you have??? J
> > vixenvibrant <vixenvibrant@y...> wrote:Hi Jeremiah~
> > We dated for two years and broke up in April. When he contacted
me
> > at the end of May to tell me he had HPV, he at first said that
he
> > just noticed it, then admitted he had had the warts for a few
> months
> > and just now went to the Dr. I would think that if either one of
> us
> > was a carrier, and we were together for so long, that I would
have
> > had cellular changes in my cervix or that one of us would have
had
> a
> > breakout. I've heard that even without signs of breakout, the
> > cellular changes still occur, and I have never had an abnormal
> pap.
> > In February, he slept with someone else, which is why we
> ultimately
> > broke up, and I'm wondering if he got it from her. They do say
> that
> > a breakout typically occurs 1 to 3 months after infection. We
had
> > sexual contact after that, but as I recall it wasn't
> > actual "intercourse" in the typical sense. My Dr. says that
since
> I
> > had warts on my finger as a child and they didn't return after
> being
> > removed, I may have developed antibodies to it, but I just don't
> > know. I was also curious, since it can be passed by oral sex,
can
> > you also get it by just touching the ejaculate fluid? Thanks for
> all
> > your info. I'm still in shock, and scared that I might get it
one
> > day.
> > --- In hpvsinglesseattlenw@yahoogroups.com, Jeremiah none
> > <jhr3love@y...> wrote:
> > > Hi Vixen, In response to your inquiry... your ex may have been
a
> > carrier all along and the virus my have just been repressed
until
> > recently. Or, mind that there may be a chance that you could be
a
> > carrier as well and not show signs of it. There have been
studies
> > conducted that show only 20% of Hpv carriers realize they have
> it.
> > The other 80% are oblivious untill it shows up, IF it shows
up!!
> > You can be a carrier and never have a breakout in your
lifetime.
> > However, you can give it to someone. I have found out that
> > many "professionals" don't have indepth info on HPV. Instead it
is
> > best to gather info from other individuals whom have had it.
Best
> to
> > search related chats, newsgroups, etc.. In my situation, my ex
had
> > always had clear Pap smears and then a year into our
relationship
> > she had a gential warts breakout. Then like 4 months after i had
a
> > break out. There really is no way of knowing for sure who
brought
> > it. Warts and gential warts are contagious by touch. Condoms
don't
> > > neccessarily prevent it! That's way your parents used to say
> > dont touch warts. As far as you know he or you could of had it
> from
> > your first intimate encounter. Any STD can be recieved by ORAL
SEX
> > too!!! if you have any more questions feel free to ask. J
> > >
> > > vixenvibrant <vixenvibrant@y...> wrote:Hello.
> > > I need some information. I ended a relationship a few months
> back,
> > > and recently found out my ex has HPV. We are still dear
friends,
> > and
> > > he is scared and convinced he'll never have sex again, and
> refuses
> > > to reach out for help. It's sad to see that happening to him.
My
> > > Dr. said my pap looked fine, but it's scary to think I may
have
> > been
> > > exposed. The time frame he's giving me doesn't add up, but he
> > claims
> > > to have not known about it before we broke up. I haven't found
> any
> > > straight talk on any of the medical sites I have seen, and no
> > > particulars about safe sex practices either, and desperately
> need
> > > some info on that. Help!!
> > >
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