Hi Vixen, My advice for anyone who thinks that they may have been exposed but
haven't shown signs yet... is to keep on living your life as if you haven't had
it. There's no need to worry and think that you have Genitalwarts if you haven't
had a breakout yet. Once you do have a breakout, it's your responsiblitiy to
tell your partner. It's the responsible and respectable thing to do, "how would
you like it if your partner had HIV and didn't tell you?!!!" (worldwide 2002; 40
mil people had HIV, 5 mil become infected yr, 3 mil died yr) But then again, if
everyone was telling the truth STDs wouldn't be such a problem. Have fun, but be
careful ;) let me know if you have any other questions... J

vixenvibrant <vixenvibrant@...> wrote:Hello~
Yeas, I did know that the ones I had on my fingers were a strain of
HPV. I've heard that there are a lot of different kinds too. It's
pretty creepy, actually. We didn't have oral contact, just some
mutual masturbation type stuff, so hopefully I will be okay. It's
sad because he was the best sexual partner I ever had, but there's
no way in hell that I would have any kind of sex with him now. I
know that anyone I am with could have it, but knowing for sure that
he does gives me the willies. I have made a point, at my Dr's
suggestion, to notify any new partners that I had a partner who
developed it, and to get regular pap tests. He said he's never going
to have sex again, but from what I heard, he is, and on his own
admittal, he is not going to notify those he has been with about it.
I notified one girl I knew, but felt funny spreading his "business".
I didn't know what else to do but to empower her with the knowledge.
*oy vey*
Vixen
--- In hpvsinglesseattlenw@yahoogroups.com, Jeremiah none
<jhr3love@y...> wrote:
> Hi Vixen, You said that you have had a wart before. Did you know
that a reg wart is a strain of hpv. There is suppossedily almost
100 strains of hpv and only about (i have heard) 15 or so strains
actually causes the genital warts your ex had. You can certainly
become infected by touching a wart, but as far as fluid
secretions.... i really don't know?!!
> You have to remember that ANY FUILD, including "precum", cum, or
any discharge containing dna from your bf can infact infect you if
it does find a way into you body. If he gave you oral than you may
contract it, as well. There is such a thing as "Oral HPV WARTS! They
have the same symptoms as genital but inside your mouth and throat.
It is a fairly uncommon type but, i have heard that it is a very
painful kind and becoming more common. Only about 5 percent
actually get this kind. It is contracted via Oral sex. I really can
not answer your fluid question. Because as far as i know, you could
have had oral sex, not swallowed but still contracted it, or
just ...."wewww i touch the cum with my finger" kinda touch.? What
kind of contact did you have??? J
> vixenvibrant <vixenvibrant@y...> wrote:Hi Jeremiah~
> We dated for two years and broke up in April. When he contacted me
> at the end of May to tell me he had HPV, he at first said that he
> just noticed it, then admitted he had had the warts for a few
months
> and just now went to the Dr. I would think that if either one of
us
> was a carrier, and we were together for so long, that I would have
> had cellular changes in my cervix or that one of us would have had
a
> breakout. I've heard that even without signs of breakout, the
> cellular changes still occur, and I have never had an abnormal
pap.
> In February, he slept with someone else, which is why we
ultimately
> broke up, and I'm wondering if he got it from her. They do say
that
> a breakout typically occurs 1 to 3 months after infection. We had
> sexual contact after that, but as I recall it wasn't
> actual "intercourse" in the typical sense. My Dr. says that since
I
> had warts on my finger as a child and they didn't return after
being
> removed, I may have developed antibodies to it, but I just don't
> know. I was also curious, since it can be passed by oral sex, can
> you also get it by just touching the ejaculate fluid? Thanks for
all
> your info. I'm still in shock, and scared that I might get it one
> day.
> --- In hpvsinglesseattlenw@yahoogroups.com, Jeremiah none
> <jhr3love@y...> wrote:
> > Hi Vixen, In response to your inquiry... your ex may have been a
> carrier all along and the virus my have just been repressed until
> recently. Or, mind that there may be a chance that you could be a
> carrier as well and not show signs of it. There have been studies
> conducted that show only 20% of Hpv carriers realize they have
it.
> The other 80% are oblivious untill it shows up, IF it shows up!!
> You can be a carrier and never have a breakout in your lifetime.
> However, you can give it to someone. I have found out that
> many "professionals" don't have indepth info on HPV. Instead it is
> best to gather info from other individuals whom have had it. Best
to
> search related chats, newsgroups, etc.. In my situation, my ex had
> always had clear Pap smears and then a year into our relationship
> she had a gential warts breakout. Then like 4 months after i had a
> break out. There really is no way of knowing for sure who brought
> it. Warts and gential warts are contagious by touch. Condoms don't
> > neccessarily prevent it! That's way your parents used to say
> dont touch warts. As far as you know he or you could of had it
from
> your first intimate encounter. Any STD can be recieved by ORAL SEX
> too!!! if you have any more questions feel free to ask. J
> >
> > vixenvibrant <vixenvibrant@y...> wrote:Hello.
> > I need some information. I ended a relationship a few months
back,
> > and recently found out my ex has HPV. We are still dear friends,
> and
> > he is scared and convinced he'll never have sex again, and
refuses
> > to reach out for help. It's sad to see that happening to him. My
> > Dr. said my pap looked fine, but it's scary to think I may have
> been
> > exposed. The time frame he's giving me doesn't add up, but he
> claims
> > to have not known about it before we broke up. I haven't found
any
> > straight talk on any of the medical sites I have seen, and no
> > particulars about safe sex practices either, and desperately
need
> > some info on that. Help!!
> >
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