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Re: [hair extensions and dreadlocks] Sad Day!

Hi everyone and thanks for the kind words. The cutting went
reasonably well, I gave each dread a quick palm roll as a way of
saying goodbye and then snip!
I was really nervous beforehand but once the first few had been
chopped off the adrenaline kicked in and everything went smoothly. I
am trying not to think about it at the moment and things are going
well but every time I look in the mirror I get a bit of a shock. The
interview is tomorrow and I'm off to the barbers shortly to get
a 'respectable' hair cut.

Becca- Yes, I agree, it is possible to work in many places with
dreadlocks, unfortunately Japanese high schools are not one of them!
In fact, in many jobs in the proffesional world I wouldn't even
consider applying for with dreadlocks as they would more than likely
laugh in my face, especially if the job involved meeting with the
public.

Crystal- What work do you do? It surprises me that you have come
across so few problems. I have noticed that in many situations black
people with dreadlocks will be accepted where as white people with
dreadlocks will be frowned upon. I am not racist in any way but I
think it may be that dreadlocks are more directly associated with
black culture.

All the best,
Christian




Wed Jan 8, 2003 2:45 pm

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Hi all, I haven't posted in a while but I thought I'd wrire a quick message to say that tomorrow I am cutting off my dreads that I have been 'cultivating' for...
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Jan 6, 2003
7:12 pm

Hi Christian, Best wishes on the job interview. Let us know how it goes and if you do get it then keep in touch from Japan - there is an amazing rasta...
Cherie Matrix
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Jan 7, 2003
2:05 pm

For you to give up your locs...you must really want this position. I pray you get it. I know many people who cut theirs and the position never manifested....
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TAFKAP4D
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Jan 7, 2003
11:21 pm

Just curious - how old are you? Your attitude just seems a bit naive or idealistic. Unfortunately, the real world doesn't work that way. Potential employers...
Kerry's Herbals
klone73
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Jan 7, 2003
11:27 pm

I don't think that attitude is naive at all. He (or she?) didn't deny that an employer might judge someone based on appearance.. they simply said that they...
Becca
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Jan 8, 2003
12:11 am

Are people still really judgemental in regard to dreadheads? I have had mine 5 years and have never had a problem finding a job or thought of chopping them...
Mirjam Gille
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Jan 7, 2003
11:41 pm

Not naive at all...I am almost 40. How old are you? Did I say people did not judged based on appearances? I gave you my opinion and my reality. I asked...
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TAFKAP4D
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Jan 7, 2003
11:44 pm

I'm sorry my post came of sounding so snarky. I read it after it came through and wished I could have reworded it. Perhaps we're coming at it from different...
Kerry's Herbals
klone73
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Jan 7, 2003
11:51 pm

I think its harder for white ppl with dreads as we are seen as punk/crusty/etc rather than as it being perceived as an 'ethnic' hairstyle. We live in London ...
Cherie Matrix
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Jan 8, 2003
4:48 pm

Kerry, No need to apologize...although it takes a big person to do that and I appreciate it but no disrespect taken. I think that is the beauty of...
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TAFKAP4D
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Jan 8, 2003
12:02 am

Hi everyone and thanks for the kind words. The cutting went reasonably well, I gave each dread a quick palm roll as a way of saying goodbye and then snip! I...
mclizct2
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Jan 8, 2003
2:45 pm

Christian, I am glad you made it through the cutting. What a beautiful way to release your locs. I really liked that. I can imagine the first few times in a...
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TAFKAP4D
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Jan 8, 2003
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Cherie, That sucks!! I would think with Amsterdam and all the individuals in England that are so hip and cool would just breeze along. That is so sad!! I...
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TAFKAP4D
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Jan 8, 2003
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Crystal, as an aside and something that i find very ironic... i don't know how many times i've been dissed for having locks by black girls with straightened...
Cherie Matrix
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