Once a judgment is in place they can garnish wages or bank accounts. First they have to figure out where your bank accounts are but any money in your name, if...
newtoyoo, Your Wrote: Enforced my first threat and put my cg out for 2 nights a few months back. He promised the moon, as he does every 4 months or so for ...
newtoyou . . . I found that one of the hardest things to wrap my mind around was the fact that the CG could impoverish and indebt the spouse, with or without...
I really appreciate the replies to my earlier post... still here. I sort of felt that I was sending it out there, not really expecting anyone to see it but...
When I read both of your posts I see so much focus upon your CG spouse . . .even in comments of anger, he is very much in the forefront of the message. For me,...
I AM TRYING TO GET IN TOUCH W/ ANITA FROM PITTSBURGH. WE HAVEN'T HEARD FROM YOU OR SEEN YOU IN A LONG TIME. I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT YOU AND WONDERED HOW YOU...
I have been living with my ex-husband for 8 mos now. We were together for 17 yrs. He is a compulsive gambler, sports, casinos, horses. I am not going to...
Lisa . . . one of the biggest eye openers for me in dealing with life with a CG was to realize that I had to SEPARATE and PROTECT MY money and assets from him....
Lisa, You Wrote: I have been living with my ex-husband for 8 mos now. We were together for 17 yrs. He is a compulsive gambler, sports, casinos, horses. I am...
Hi Gary, Thank you so much for your help. I really appreciate hearing your positive response. I am in recovery in AA so I am very familiar with the 12 steps...
Hi, Boy can I relate to this reply. My CG has ruined our credit, I declared bakrupsy (sp?) at his urging about 7 yrs ago. IRS problems to the tune of about...
Hi, Boy can I relate to your situations. Its very helpful to know I'm not alone in all the craziness that has gone on over the years. The advice is very...
Lisa, unless and until your CG spouse experiences the consequences of his actions, unless and until your CG spouse takes control of HIS behavior and HIS...
Hello all: I've returned because things have crashed horribly with my boyfriend who is a CG (mostly live poker). He relapsed big time! He struggles horribly...
This will be really hard to hear, but if I were you, I would distance myself completely from this man. It is too easy to be suckered back into his lifestyle....
... I agree with Melody. Unfortunately there are many women in this country who have been taught that they must have a man.....any man... or else they are...
I have also been away awhile and let myself get sucked back in. My CG took off Saturday while I was at the flea market with my sister. Proving once again that...
He knows that it is over between us, you say, and then you went for two walks with him? How confusing is that? As if his problems are great enough, giving...
Sigh, it must be a long and bad day for me. You said, "if I let him out of my sight he will gamble." You no more have control over when he DOES gamble than...
Yes, you all are exactly right! Thank you for your very clear words. I need clarity. I did check on a GAnon meeting. They have them the 1st and 3rd Thurs of...
How on earth can you work and travel together and IT'S OVER?? That is the most amazing thing I have ever heard. Could you quit and find another place to...
YES, I know! it is agony! and to make it even worst, he is in my chain of command. we both have amazing and stressful jobs with the state health dept. we are...
You poor thing. I hope the yoga reduces your stress level. That and a nice hot fudge sundae. You're allowed to indulge, just this once. lol Melody ... From:...
Thanks melody! he called me throughout the night feeling very alone. telling me that he missed me and his "best friend". we were best friends along with being...
... I am new to this group although I have been reading the posts for quite some time. I have a boyfriend that I also work with who I believe is a CG. I joined...
... Hi Melody, My heart goes out to you. As a mother, also, of a cg son, I know what you are going through. During the hardest times of my son's addiction,...
Murphy_97306@... Sorry for using your screen name but you didn't provide your name in your last email. You Wrote: I am new to this group although I have been...
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