Wht is it with the compulsive gamblers and the anger. I confronted my husband about $2500 that he spent gambling. I was yelling and he went balistic. Now he...
Being master manipulators, seems to me that many CG's have learned how to behave to insure that their family members will fall into line with them. Nothing...
lbhfranklin, You Wrote: I am just frustrated again. I wrote in a couple of weeks ago when I found out my husband was gambling again. It has been 3 weeks, he...
Dana, You Wrote: Wht is it with the compulsive gamblers and the anger. I confronted my husband about $2500 that he spent gambling. I was yelling and he went...
I'm new to this group and would like to know how it works. At this point it always looks like everyone is off line. I would like to chat with others in this...
Hi, my name is Dana. I am have been married to a compulsive gambler for 35 yrs. Life gets pretty crazy sometimes. We had a pretty bad week last week because I...
Hi Dana! I have been married almost as long as you have and have gone through other compulsive behaviors before the gambling. I, like you have seen large...
Debbie, where do you live? We are in Omaha, NE. I know for myself, I am finally starting to get more responsible and I need to continue, no matter what he...
What's with this junk mail via the gamanon sight? ... ____________________________________________________________________________________ Now that's room...
Like any other open sites on the internet, we will always find those that use these sites for the wrong purposes. I try to delete them and ban the authors as...
Essence magazine is looking for a Black woman who is secretly gambling online. We'd like to hear from a woman who has lost time, money and maybe even...
My husband got a credit card using my name and social without my knowledge. It is on my credit report as being opened feb. of 2007 and is now maxed out. I've...
I am sure someone will answer with more specifics for you. You are in a very difficult position. Your husband *STOLE* your identity and you can probably...
Hon, and I say this with love and sincerity. You need to take a long hard look at your marriage and whether you want to stay in it if he is doing this. He has...
Nicole, Approximately 5 years ago I found myself in a very similar situation to the one you have described. My wife (a compulsive gambler) had somehow managed...
Gary: You said the following: " Lastly, I am not endorsing divorce as a practical way of dealing with the problem you described ... I still think that divorce...
I guess it does seem pretty stupid of us (spouses) to stay in a marriage like this. OK - for my own sanity here's some practical reasons for not moving out the...
Melody, You Wrote: I am absolutely astounded that you still feel this way. After all the stuff that spouses of compulsive gamblers have gone through, (and from...
Gary: I just wanted to thank you for explaining the whole thing to me. I guess each of us has to make our own individual choices. It has to be the hardest...
Nah, you're not stupid at all. You are just stuck in a situation that you don't know any way to get out of!!!! But if your 2 year old grows up and notices what...
In addition to getting advice from an experienced and smart attorney I hope you will consider getting a lot of individual counseling for yourself. Learn all...
Nichole, I feel every bit of your pain. What you need to do and I need to do is go to gamanon. We have 3 grown children and an adopted special needs child. Our...
Hi Gary, I wanted to thank you for the way in which you can answer the questions posed here in a non judgmental manner. People come here in an emotional state...
Hi Nicole, My first gambling debt, the first time I crossed that line came in the form of a line of credit in my husbands name. The argument could have been...
Toni, I truly appreciate your kind words. Sharing my experiences and the knowledge that I obtained through Gam-Anon, my involvement with my state's council on...
Gary: I really need your input. Remember I told you about my friend's son who is up in his room (drinks beer all day long). She had gone to a al-anon meeting...
Toni I will. Thanks. ... === message truncated === __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best...
Hi Gary, I realize that my situation is rare, but probably seems even more rare in the circles of gamanon. In my groups, there are many people who have been...
Just got my BA and i did not even have to go to the campus for 1 day! Just got a tip from a friend and gave these guys a call 770 621-2634,...
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Melody, First off, I apologize for the my delay in getting back to you but a situation cropped up w/one of my friends yesterday that made me think of your...