Hi all. Hope all of you are well. No one seems to be posting lately. I am coping as well as I can. We all have problems don't we. Haven't heard from my son in...
The only person you can help is yourself. That's why you found these message boards. We do not say "do not love your husband". We do say "you have no control...
Stay out of the way of them and the consequences of their gambling. Focus on yourself and protect yourself in any way you need too. ... [Non-text portions of...
Jim Morphey
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Apr 4, 2006 6:36 pm
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It does not mean you must walk out. Protect your finances, get help (therapy/counselor) for yourself. I wish you the best. Jennifer ... [Non-text portions of...
Martha, You can't! In fact you can't truly help someone who accepts that they have a problem . . . they have to help themselves. And trust me . . . this is ...
Martha, "Tough Love" is the concept we regularly talk about in Gam-Anon. It has to do with making the tough decisions that (on the surface) may appear to be a...
Does anyone know if playing games on internet not for any money can be trigger to gambling. A woman at Gama non meeting had told me this. My husband who is a...
You are describing a phenomenon called "dry gambling" . . . it isn't a good thing and IMHO, I believe it WILL lead to real gambling. Is your husband into this?...
Oh yeah, that sounds familular! I've never known any spouse of a compulsive gambler who hasn't experienced that. It's all part of the manipulation to get you...
Jim Morphey
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Apr 5, 2006 4:27 am
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thank you so much now i no i am right to tell him no and to stop helping him .and to make him fix what he has caused .see i thought i was being mean when i...
Gambling on the internet was the fuel that kept my husband going. When he wasn't out gambling, he'd be on the internet. Regardless of if there is money...
The Internet is what start this and he is the same way for money or not and if i ask he say i am practicing i got it forged out now i no how to win Breeun...
Just to clarify a few things. Rights for gay people are governed by the laws in each state also federally. In the USA here, federally there is no recognition...
Any person who owns a house is responsible for the mortgage, taxes, insurance and maintenance costs. If one person continues to own the house and the mortgage,...
Well, what a surprise. After not hearing from him for weeks and weeks and finding out he was almost evicted and owed money to everybody, he called me the other...
Hi there, I haven't written in awhile, since I am trying to cope with my own mess, or should I say, my CG's mess that's on my head. It's been such a slow and...
Hi Melody. I am new to this site and have only been a passive reader and thinker up until now, but your letter has motivated me to respond. I felt your...
Hi Nadine: I read your heartfelt reply to my posting. My son has also been diagnosed with Aspergers disorder, Narcissistic Personality disorder, (as a child,...
Grazynka73, Welcome back . . . sorry to hear about your struggles. You Wrote: I haven't written in awhile, since I am trying to cope with my own mess, or ...
My boyfriend has been going to GA meetings for about 2 years now. Although he tries not to, he sometimes still gives into gambling sometimes. Is it not a...
It is not your responsibility to take him out of anywhere, anything, anyhow. It's his problem. He has to face it. You need to come to these boards and get our...
Thank you, Gary. I feel better just talking about my struggles, so thank you for your good advice. I dropped off my appeal at the government office yesterday...
I have so much to learn about "letting go". That is so difficult for me because I like to "fix" things. Growing up I was "the peacemaker" in our family....
I hear ya, My husband(soon to be Ex) made many excuses not to go to counseling, He also said he didnt have a problem that it was just a mistake, yeh right....
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