I live in Michigan and am wondering how to protect assets that we have accumulated over 40 years. Can I change ownership on stocks and annunities and land...
Since I am not familiar w/the legaliteez in your state, I would recommend consulting a finacial advisor or an attorney, If you can't find one, check with your...
I am not sure what your state laws are either. For that matter, I'm not completely sure what my state's laws are regarding this, but I operate under the...
Hi! I'm Kathy F. I live in Oklahoma and am the wife of a compulsive gambler (in recovery, thank goodness!). I found out about my husband's problem in early...
Hi Everyone, I just found this group on the internet and thought I would give it a try. I am planning to go to my first Gam-Anon meeting on Thursday. My mom...
Hi Julie, Have you looked into a gamanon face to face meeting YOU can attend? That would be a great starting point for you to come to terms with your own...
Hi Again, Someone responded to my message and asked how my dad can be oblivious. I didn't mean to say that he doesn't know. He has had to pull money out of...
Julie, I hope that you and your dad will get to face to face gamanon meetings right away. You will both benefit from the guidance and help they have to offer...
Oy! Know how you feel. Tough love is the best love for a gambler in my opinion. With my husband, when I had decided I had had enough I told him. Either I...
JUlie, YOU WROTE: I just found this group on the internet and thought I would give it a try. I am planning to go to my first Gam-Anon meeting on Thursday. MY...
Hello again, I wrote a couple of days ago about how my mother is a compulsive gambler, and likes to play the slots at Barona. I have gotten a few very nice...
Hi LittleLaurz, My name is Julie. I am very new to this message board, and I am going to my first GAm-anon meeting tomorrow. I was just reading through a few...
Julie, I don't think it's at all unusual to question whether or not you are (in some way) responsible for your mother's compulsive gambling . . . it's easier...
Gary, you wrote: "Since you've begun to venture back into the world of dating and meeting new people . . . I'd love to hear your thoughts on my situation. Keep...
Jim Morphey
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Jan 6, 2005 4:21 am
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Jim, Thank you for your response to my posting. YOU WROTE: Gary, I have given it some time to think about an answer and I have determined that there isn't any...
hi again my name is benita and i wrote a few weeks back about my cg and his moving out. well he had no where to go so i let him back but this time i set rules...
Benita: Boy, is he trying to put the guilt trip on you!! By now, it has to make you just shake your head and (hate to say it, roll your eyes). No one is...
Happy Friday, everyone. I have a question that I have been trying to figure out the answer to on my own, but just can't seem to. A couple months ago, my CG...
Dear JKA, I went through the same situation. without boundries or set rules, you are enabling by paying your bill off. Even if it is in your name. If you pay...
Ron - Do you suggest I let the bill just set there and look poorly on my credit in an effort not to enable my CG? This is an actual question, I'm not trying...
Hi JKA; I am telling you mine started with only one credit card in my name. I too paid it off. Some time later I found I had $60,000 in credit card debt and...
JKA: I would tell your husband that he must pay off his debt (on your credit card), or you are going to contact the credit card company and tell them what...
Benita, I found it amusing that he actually thought you would buy his load of crap! J ... [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
Jim Morphey
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Jan 8, 2005 1:54 am
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Hi. Everyone has an opinion based on what they have learned in gamanon, their own values and experiences. I think you should pay off the $500 and save YOUR...
Anita - Thank you so much. I have been leaning towards paying off the $500 (I've already paid $100) in an effort to protect myself. I think putting a fraud...
Hi My name is Lori and I have been a silent observer here for quite a while, having only posted once or twice. Like all of you, I have been struggling with...
Lori, My prayers are with you. I survived to see the sunshine and you will too. J ... [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
Jim Morphey
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Jan 10, 2005 6:05 am
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... Hi Lori. I haven't posted for a long while here. I also belong to yahoo/alanon group that has more members/more responses but it can be frustrating since...
Hello Everyone; I am new to this group and joined in hopes that someone can help me with advice. My name is Mima and my boyfriend of 3 years is a compulsive...
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