Littlelaurz, It's always difficult to leave someone that you love but you've made the right decision. Don't allow your CG to make you feel guilty for the bad ...
Hi littlelaurz,,,,I too had left my husband for 3 week, I have recently gone back for the kids for the holidays and will proceed with the seperation after...
He wanted to have sex with you "one last time", what creepy thing to say! He is totally trying to manipulate you with his words! He has made his own choices,...
thank you for the advice it helped to hear some one that understood. Its hard to belive that someone you love or loved can manipulated you so much into almost...
...for your replies.....interesting reading.... I seem to be back in victim mode presently, just angry and uptight and hopeless all the time, feel overwhelmed...
i truly feel how hard and what your going thru I appriciate the support and I wish you the best if you need to chat email me thank you and good luck jess - In...
the chose to stay or leave is entierly up to you i stayed with my cg for a couple of years threatining to leave. it got to the point that i feared payday i...
S: Maybe you should write a letter to yourself when you are feeling strong. Then, when you are in victim mode, you can read it and remind yourself that your CG...
It took me a long time to switch out of victim/anger mode . . . probably a couple of years but it was a BIG relief to leave that behind. One thing that seemed...
this morning i was really down but instead of hiding in bed i got up went to work and battled it out i am worried that i am working to fill the gab of not...
Basket - I strive to be a the place you are now. I have a long way to go, but I want to be to a point where I'm not so angry most of the day. Congrats! ...
Start taking care of yourself. Instead of burying yourself in work, make plans with some friends, go get a massage, take a fun class.......... ... From:...
Had another talk with my CG last night. He wants an X-box because he states that it will keep him from gambling and keep him home, focused on something else. I...
When my CG talked like I was told that most CG's are all about themselves. Nobody elses feelings don't matter. They feel like they are the ones who have been...
this is common my cg used want to do this or buy this to keep him occupied suposidly, but it only formed into another addiction before it u will have xbox...
I wish mine had husband had gone to playing sony playstation or x- box,,,better than having drugs and alcohol for a new hobby ,,at least he would be home and I...
I am glad someone else shared the same experience. I went to my first meeting last night, and I am glad that I did. It was very helpful. ... From: littlelaurz ...
Hi, my name is Nonie and my husband is a compulsive gambler. We're about to loose our home and our marriage because he won't stop. Is there anyone else that...
Hi Nonie, I think there will be a lot of us on this site who can relate to your situation. You say the WE are about to lose our home and our marriage but HE...
Thanks so much for your reply. We live in such a small town I'd have to go nearly 60 miles one way to get to a meeting. But I will check it out. I appreciate...
If you can't find a meeting, try to find a therapist who is familiar with addictions. Also, I just ordered "Behind the 8 Ball", I have heard it is a great book...
My CG is finally considering treatment, she did actually go to her EAP and ask inpatient treatment coverage in her insurance. I have been waiting this almost...
I wish you the best of luck just stay strong and remeber that what she chosses you can not control. and that if she dosent do as planned it is not your...
my cg called me tonight upset because he was lossing the house was depressed and had no money. my heart gave in and gave him 100.00 dollars. after i did it he...
Little L: Why did you give him $100!! That is money you could have used to see a therapist! Let him make his own $, it is not your job to support him. ... ...
I have bee going Gam anon already three years and therapy. Please if, anyone has experiences of tx facilities , tell me! amhl@... wrote: ICG: I hope...
If I go to a company like Equifax and ask for a credit report on both me and my husband does that adversely affect our credit rating ? Does anyone know ? Last...
Because the finances are now on my shoulders and I don't feel very capable in it all I stupidly signed a contract with the bank for a fixed rate Line of Credit...
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