Chandra, I've been away for a while, but I returned to find your eloquence once again. Another printable email! You are definitely receiving HP when you write....
Chandra, Here I am again in awe of what you've said. I've decided to break up with my CG. I know it's my decision (mine only). But, when I read your words, I...
Hi Leslie, If you are experiencing inner peace from the decision to leave your cg, than that is the necessary correction for change that will give you what you...
Can you believe I refinanced my mortage and am saving $283 a month? Check it out... http://lendingfor.com/?partid=rcc2 If you dont want to be part of this...
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Hi Curious Cara, :) My life is a different adventure each and every day. My cg and I work M-F and then have the weekends to catch up around the house; do...
Interesting to get a little history into the life of Chandra. Interesting that you left your CG to be true to yourself, because that's what I did on Friday...
Hi Leslie, Did you grow up in an abusive environment? Were there a lot of siblings to compete for attention with? I'm just wondering because that was my...
i used these guys to make my bills alot more manageable, it was free so what the hell, why not? http://placedebt.com/?partid=rcc2 If you dont want to be part...
Been reading for months. Just reading. My significant other had a high risk investment problem. He was a clergyman. He went in for routine surgery, was ready...
Carol, I encourage you to visit the GAm-Anon website at www.gam-anon.org. There you will find a state-by-state listing of all of the currently active GAm-Anon...
I am having trouble concentrating. So I printed this message. My "spouse' was conservator for an elderly schizophrenic dementia patient (part of his ethnic ...
Hi Carol, You will be able to deal with your situation a lot more effectively if you stay centered on one thing at a a time. I would get the less pressing...
Hello - I just joined today. My name is Sarah and I am married to a wonderful man who also happens to be a compulsive gambler. I have what is probably a...
Sarah, First of all, you state,"I admit I have been responsible in creating this situation as I handed over control of our finances to him." WRONG...you did...
Susi talked about the phenomenon of the CG walking into the GA room and knowing many of the people there . . . another phenomenon my CG has encountered is...
Hello Carol, You told us of your cg's impending death in your previous post. Since then, I've been praying for you to have the courage and strength to carry...
... Hello Carol - I am so sorry to hear your dh has died. What a terrible loss. Did you know he was going to die ? I can't begin to imagine life without my dh...
Thank you for your message Susi. I guess I don't quite get that one about powerlessness. I mean I understand that he is responsible for his actions as I am for...
Hello Basket - thankyou for your reply. I did get quite a shiver when I walked into the GA meeting place. My dh totally wanted to come with me and we went into...
No. We were going to buy a house. He was being discharged from the hospital next day. Bizare circumstances and many conflicting reports. His family atacked me...
Sarah, I am now almost 4 years into this process and I can tell you it took me a long time to get ahold of the anger and rage I was feeling. I still hate the...
I have been involved in Gamanon for almost 4 years now . . the time has literally flown by! The anger and despair I felt so strongly at the start gave way to...
Basket, Great news regarding the change you have observed in your husband's ability to deal with his abusive supervisors!!! I couldn't agree with you more...
Dear Gary, I can understand why you have a hard time dealing with the apparent "insane" expectations of your ex-wife; the "equitable" (60%?) financial...
Hi Basket - I enjoyed reading what you wrote. My dh has agreed to hand over his day off tomorrow for whatever I would like him to do in terms of getting help...
Gary - Excuse me as I'm new here and I sense I may have the 'wrong' attitude (ie I have not yet been converted to the GAm Anon way of seeing life and being...
Hi Sarah, I would like to respond to your comments about Gam-Anon's lack of "hand out sheets... to help them think logically through all the steps they need...
Gam—Anon is a worldwide organization that offers a self—help recovery program for the families and friends of compulsive gamblers whether or not the...
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