Wel it looks like I am the first one to post all year! I wish everyone a happy and hopeful new year. I just had one of the most weird New Years eve days....
1. Thou shall not worry, for worry is the most unproductive of all human activities. 2. Thou shall not be fearful, for most of the things we fear never come to...
thnx for you reply :) I have not set up my own messageboard..because I have to be very carefull when I go on the internet..my parents will kill me of they find...
to prevent confusion..my nickname is jip..my real name is aradhna..that's why I put aradhna under my previous message :) ... they ... refer ... the ... ...
To leave the old with a burst of song; To recall the right and forgive the wrong; To forget the things that bind you fast To the vain regrets of the year...
I am new to this group. My story is just about the same as everyone else's. I have 3 kids, 7, 3 and 4 months. We have been evicted 3x, our cars have been...
deergasy, I am so sorry that you are going through this. I had my husband leave in October as well. I have been dealing with this for 7 years and it just...
Hurting Wife, My spouse has been gone several months. I asked her to leave, after another series of lies, stealing and adultry. I realized I was becoming ...
Thank you so much. I have made the decision not to call him. When I speak to him, there is so much anger. It's as if he hates me. I have never really been a...
Deergasy, definatley do not call him unless its for the kids. You need to protect yourself right away financially. You need to file for at least a legal...
deergasy, It has been my experience that you cannot expect your inlaws to get a clue as to what is really going on. I laid out the facts and the proof of my...
Deergasy, You know right now you are probably extra sensitive and emotional since you have a new baby only 4 months old, and you need all of the support you...
In a message dated 1/6/2004 10:13:50 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... De-Nile ain't just a river in Egypt. Amazing, isn't it? [Non-text portions of this message...
It took me along time to realize that the first and most important thing I had to do was to stop worrying about what my CG was doing or not doing and worry...
I'm not sure how to heal, now that my CG husband has started an affair and life with another woman. I still have to interact with him, because of our kids, but...
I hope you have a face to face group to meet with and I hope you have a counselor you are working with now. If you don't, please find someone you can talk to...
In a message dated 1/12/2004 1:54:53 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... You sound like you already have your answer. You will find the strength to do so when you...
Dear hurting wife, your situation is so similar to mine that I had to e-mail you with something that I think will help you. I am married to a gambler. I have 3...
Wow, your situation is like mine was a christmas too Pauline. I didnt ask him to come back but tried to involve him and it ended up in a terrible fight and me...
Deergasy, please don't give up. I know it's hard to deal with this. Try to think about the good things you have. 3 beautiful, healthy children who love and...
You wrote "I am just so hurt and confused." To add to all the advice given you so far, please don't allow your emotions to validate what is true. You will...
Greetings all and Happy New Year. I recently returned from visiting my parents. The trip was very disappointing -- I cut it short by a week. The reason is my...
In a message dated 1/15/2004 6:12:00 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... I certainly can relate. My father was an alcoholic, and he acted exactly the same way....
Pauline, in reading your advice it really helped reiterate what I feel too. I , as of last night, am in the same boat. although I already filed for a...
Lynn, I'm sure you are feeling low. You have to try and keep reminding yourself of your worth. Are you sure he is seeing someone else? It may be just a way of...
Pauline, Thnks for your quick response. You are absolutley right, he is my bad habit and I am always preaching to him about getting help to get rid of the...
Hi all, thank you for reading this. I will try to sum it all up briefly. I am looking for some advice on how to "deal" with my compulsive gambling husband....
hello i'm new to this group, i will make my story as short as i can. My hubby and i have been married for 15 + yrs. like most have had our ups and downs. he is...
First of all, let me tell you that the amount of money lost has nothing to do with how we all feel. I think I speak for all spouses when I say that it is the...
I posted yesterday and saw it on the message board, but it didn't come in my email also. Does this mean that noone else received it, unless they saw it on the...
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