Background Info: My husband is/was? a cg: casino/blackjack and daytrading options/futures. I was planning on separating/divorcing, and it took a couple months...
are you in counseling yet? Why don't you take this post to your counselor and see what he/she has to say about it. Addicts are never in the "was" camp . ....
I HAVE STOPPED ENABLING MY CG HUSBAND NOW WHAT?? WHAT SHOULD I EXPECT BECAUSE HE STILL GAMBLING BUT IT SEEMS LESS BUT THAT IS NOT ENOUGH FOR ME. HE SAYS ITS A...
Carmen, For me, "stopping" the enabling is a forever active thing . .not sure I can ever say that I "stopped" totally, since it is so insidious. Part of that...
Hi Carmen, I'm really glad that you are done enabling him. That's important. I just wanted to comment on his taking the nicorette approach to stopping...
Hi Carmen, You go girl! I too feel the same way. I don't care if my cg husband stops or plays all i know is that i don't share the same feeling as him and i...
MY cg husband is going to Las Vegas next week (we live in TX) - he plays amateur league pool and is going there to compete - so he is pretending he won't...
hello everyone, i am the fiance of a cg. he is going to councelling, and ga.(i have gone to meetings with him, he invited me, so i know he is going) he quit...
just a little addendum to my post. his son is supposed to be moving in with us very shortly.even though i like his son alot,and want to help him, im at odds...
Hi Violet, welcome to our group. You will find a lot of people who post here to be helpful and informative and we all share that common bond. In reading your...
thanks basket, the gamanon meetings i have found are far away..too far. that seems to be his pattern...8 months ago, when he confronted me with his true debt,...
Here is the program my CG spouse is working . . . He sees a certified gambling addictions counselor individually. I have my own counselor. ONLY after many...
basket, he had been going to g.a. listening for about 2 months before he quit gambling. he does go, i go with him when he asks me to ..he stopped for 8 months...
What keeps you with him is love and an addiction called co-dependency. We become as sick as they are. Are there any Alanon meetings near you? They are very...
there are alanon meetings very close to my home. i wanted to go this past week but my car is not working so perhaps this coming week. i understand that...
Hi, I have not written in awhile. My CG husband soon to be x husband and I are in divorce preceedings. We are trying to negotiate custody of our child and...
Pupni, You Wrote: I have not written in awhile. My CG husband (soon to be x husband) & I are in divorce proceedings. We are trying to negotiate custody of our...
I met with an attorney when I found out about my CG husband's return to gambling about 2 years ago. Was the first thing I did. I suppose it depends upon the...
Pupni, Basket makes some very good points regarding the legalities of your situation. If you live in a "no fault" state (like I do) … the courts see divorce...
We have no Gam-Anon meetings near my home. I've read that Al-Anon can be beneficial, but I was concerned about a few things. I went to one meeting. It was a...
kylersmommy1212, You Wrote: We have no Gam-Anon meetings near my home. I've read that Al-Anon can be beneficial, but I was concerned about a few things. I went...
Hello, I just joined this group and am wondering if any of you members get together and chat on yahoo messenger? If so, you are more than welcome to contact me...
A while back, folks would post a specific day and time (be sure to include your time zone!) when they were going to visit CHAT and often 2-3 or even more...
... Thanks for the reply basket but, anytime and any day is a good time to contact me on messenger. I work flexible hours and I spend a lot of time near my...
Their used to be a "chat" link on this site but for some reason it is no longer available. I am sorry. The best way is to either attend a face to face...
Hello Susi, I read the first 2 steps in the file and they were very interesting. I can not find the next 10 steps, however. Could you please send me the link...
Blaine, Here are the 12 Steps of Gam-Anon & some related commentary. I was a little surprised at how difficult it was to find these on the Internet. I hope...
Thanks a lot Gary, it appears that the Gam-Anon steps are the same as the GA steps. I didn't know that. If there is any other information and/or help you can...
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