I would think they have to have a gamblers counsler somewhere close. You both need to get help. If there are no GA meethings you can always go to A.A. You...
What I found happen to me was that my CG spouse would go on and on about how inept I was in handling money (not true at all) but all of that belittling,...
This weekend I had a run in with my CG husband. He seem so different and was verbally violent and out of reality since he moved out of the house about two...
hope, I have not had a situation like this so I can't speak to it but if you are concerned about you and your children's safety, please seek help immediately....
I want to install this gam blocks on our home computers. If I tell my husband I'm certain he will be angry and he won't let me. Should I do it anways?...
I did it anyway, since I paid for the damned computer, and was he mad? yup. Tough sh^$, was my response. He tried to say that the computer shuts down "for no...
My husband KR has a gambling problem.He is the only one who works, a truck driver in all states I can not control the money it is put on a comdata card for...
I have been there before. If the credi cards are under your name, are they maxed out. If not do not let him use the credit cards and you should cut up the...
I don't know what gam block is but I did the same thing with Norton Security Parental Controls. I'm the Administrator so he can't change it back. I don't...
You cannot afford to "not work". Your husband is gambling away most of all of his earnings and you have no earnings. You cannot control his income, it seems,...
It has destroyed my family.My fiance is completely addicted to it. He plays full tilt and poker stars. He watches poker on tv and obsessively talks about poker...
Your boyfriend/fiance is an addict. You have chosen to stay with and marry (?) an addict. You have to look at the choices YOU are making and let go of his...
My CG spouse was the 8th of 12 children in his family. Both parents gambled at the horse race tracks when they didn't have enough money to feed their...
Oh it gets even worse . . . she argued with her husband saying they can't afford to do this, if they were going to "loan" anyone money it would be their 3 kids...
Why are you still with him if you hate him? I hate my cg husband too and i am now separated from him because the things he does make no sense and i do not...
Hello, I've been a member of gamanon for 3 years in Henderson NV. To anyone that is new, this is an awesome 1st step. Continue and find your strength, I did!!...
this is an update since my last post... the last time my cg husband gambled at the casino was in mid-January, Jan 9th to be exact, pay day. That weekend I...
Hey, Jess, Your story made me remember some of the same crap that I went through with my cg husband... like getting pregnant... the first time I found out I...
Being angry at your cg fiance won't change him. If anything, the hatred and resentment and all of those negative feelings that you are harboring is having a...
You haven't said if you have protected yourself and your child economically. Sounds like your CG spouse has still refused to give up control of the money end...
HELLO I AM THE WIFE OF A CASINO GAMBLER AND I AM NEW HERE. MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN GAMBLING FOR ABOUT 4 YEARS NOW ON AND OFF.. HE HAS TIMES WHERE IT GETS REALLY...
HELLO I AM THE WIFE OF A CASINO GAMBLER AND I AM NEW HERE. MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN GAMBLING FOR ABOUT 4 YEARS NOW ON AND OFF.. HE HAS TIMES WHERE IT GETS REALLY...
Hi, I'm sorry to hear that your going through this. Unfortunately, you can't help your husband unless he wants to get help for himself. You really need to...
I FEEL REALLY FRUSTRATED!!!I CANT SEEM TO UNDERSTAND HOW THIS ADDICTION WORKS, THAT YOU DONT CARE ABOUT YOUR FAMILY AND THAT THEY LOVE YOU BUT YET THEY HURT...
MY HUSBAND HAS TRIED TO STOP GAMBLING ON HIS OWN, AND HE DID ALMOST COMPLETELY; IT WAS UNDER CONTROL AT LEAST. HE WONT TAKE ANY HELP AT ALL, HE SAID THIS WONT...
Hello...is it Carmen??? I guess the best advise you can get at this point is to stop trying to understand his addiction and realize the only thing you can do...
I will never understand either because I don't have the disease. My husband is very lucky and usually wins when he gambles .... But hasn't left the casino...
Please listen to what Toni says. Also, you are focusing in your posts on (1) your addicted husband's problems and behaviors and (2) the *fault* of the casino,...
Compulsive gamblers win because of the law of averages. If I put $1000 into a machine and hit $900 is it a win? Not in a rational mind but it sounds good when...