... account ... his ... he ... them ... once ... a ... is ... don't ... I ... Hi Gamanon meetings will definitly help you through this life situation. I...
When we suffered a devastating loss last summer due to a rare complication of pregnancy called a molar pregnancy, the first thing I did was search for hope. I...
Welcome to our group and I am so sorry you had to find us. I think many of us here can relate to most if not all of your experiences, sad to say. You...
Thank you. I'm sorry there's a reason for this group. It's the same way I felt after I was diagnosed with the molar pregnancy and found support with other...
You have taken your first step towards your own recovery. Going to the Gam-Anon meeting I believe may open your eyes to many things that you do not realize...
You will learn so much from your face to face gamanon meeting. Keep going, it takes time. There is no quick fix; no instant realization or understanding. It...
It will also make you realize that you really have absolutely no control over what he does. No list of conditions is going to deter your husband if he chosses ...
One of the most disturbing things I found in my journey is when the realization that I had absolutely no control over this problem . . . I could investigate,...
Sounds like you are taking control of your life the right way. You have gone into this with your eyes open and that is great. The only reason I brough up...
I have reason to suspect that my husband is gambling again. The problem is that his father is in the hospital dying from cancer. He has a gambling counselor,...
Your husband is and always will be a compulsive gambler. I can't tell you if he is or is not gambling, but I can tell you that what YOU are doing is not doing...
letting go of HIS problems and protecting yourself . . these have always been the best first steps for all of us. If your husband is 'gambling again' he must...
How do I do that? Protect myself financially. He is a doctor and has a practice where he gets cash from patients and insurance checks. I have no way of...
As far as I know, there is no way right now that you can keep track of his income, however, you CAN make sure that your name is not on any account with him....
I do not know your personal financial arrangements within your marriage . . . if you have an arrangement where you are provided with money for home and family,...
Im sorry for your difficulties....... I hear what you are saying and understand ... I have said the same things myself...... But the reality is if they do not...
Trust your instints, we learn quickly best wishes ... From: pupni <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> To: gamanonsupportgroup@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, June 9, 2008...
It's been fairly quiet again, I hope everyone is doing as well as they can be in spite of the circumstances that bring us here. I just really wanted to check...
Congrats Toni I have been reading on this site for some time now. I lost my best friend, girlfriend, lover, confidant, partner to the Casino. My heart aches...
Hi everyone, I am feeling so confused right now. My husband is my best friend. He makes me laugh everyday, cooks me dinner every night, tells me how ...
I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I don't know what advice to give but to let you know you are not alone. I am in a similar situation. I don't...
Toni, congratulations. You are an example of what working a program can do for the betterment of your life. Way to go. You just keep doing the right thing...
Thank you Don and Dana. I wish there was some profound thing that I could say that would help with understanding this addiction, or say to those struggling...
Toni, I have been in AA for 14 months. I was a daily wine drinker, never until 5p.m. But it was such a crutch for me. I had my last hang over April 16th. 2007....
My husband is a CG. His father is dying of cancer. Last week I caught my husband gambling on line after he not only promised he wouldn't do that but lied to...
Don't take on his bad feelings. He is responsible for himself. If I were you, I would go to an Al-anon or gam-anon meeting tomorrow. You need to keep doing...
He's going to gamble if he gambles, whether or not his father is dying, whether it's sunny, cloudy, Tuesday or Friday. Having added stress is a factor but the...
Hi Dana, Way to go! It must be really difficult to remain steadfast when you're with someone who is still active. I'm fortunate on so many levels. My husband...
Hi Toni I finally had to let go of my CG. Was with her for more than 7 yrs an it just wore me out. It sounds like you are doin super and I am very happy for...
Pupni, I used to post to this support board quite often but I seldom post these days so I must 1st apologize for the tardiness of my response to your message....
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