... book!!! ... boys ... it ... some ... yourself ... yourself. ... have ... the ... and ... to ... bar. ... Hi I understand how you feel and I have been there...
Leigh, You Wrote: I recently heard similar nonsense from my CG husband. He said all the problems we were having were from me trying to "control" things. He is...
Toni & others ... We all know how frustrating it can be when we observe others enabling a compulisve gambler without realizing it. This enabling may come in ...
Gary, the story of your divorce continues to be chiling each and every time I hear it. I hope that you are able to speak to group that includes the judge who...
Toni Wrote: I just read something that made me think (again)...They post reflections of the day in all of my other groups. 1 comment on today's reflection was...
Good morning Gary, Good to see you on the board. Everytime I hear parts of your life I am amazed and so saddened by your ex's ability to find a desire to end...
Hi again Gary, I had to chew on this a bit. I agree that this reflection applies to all, the thought in general really should read "do you treasure your ...
I am divorced from my husband for many years. He is interested in a possible relationship. Iam not sure, if this is something I want or need. I do care...
I would not consider a reconciliation if your daughter is still under-age and at home. You don't want to disrupt her life again. If it were me, I would not...
Hi Gary I'm glad to see you posting. I've wondered about you the last week or so. Even though your words are sometimes hard for me to read...make me think...
... If ... Thanks for the honesty, I really appreciate it. arty ... in a ... or ... our ... today. I ... deal ... person ... people ... in ... to ... I ... ...
I think you really have to think about why you would consider this . . .love, companionship, habit, boredom, sharing expenses, old 'fix it' mentality? There...
... you ... be ... etc. ... addicts ... senses ... less ... describing ... Thanks for the reminders! It is so true that we attract addicts, they know we will...
... you ... be ... etc. ... addicts ... senses ... less ... describing ... Thanks for the reminders! It is so true that we attract addicts, they know we will...
... or ... me ... calm ... Hi Gary, It must have been painful supporting your ex wife, then having her turn on you during the divorce. They do not want to...
hi, having been in my positon for 5 yrs on and off and him getting help on and off and dealing with the personality disorders that my cg has and now so do I,...
... help on and off and dealing with the personality disorders that my cg has and now so do I, the mood swings the stress the living and breathing of everyday...
This evening I received a call from a Mother that attends our Gamanon meeting. She wanted to let me know that her son (39) had committed suicide and they had ...
How truly sad. I remember, when my son used to call us and threaten to commit suicide, that we would re-arrange furniture because we thought we would be having...
Hello - I visited this group a year or two ago and now I'm back. My husband is a CG and recently messed up again - 4th time in the last 2 years he has come...
trying to reason with an addict is futile. You must protect yourself. You said you are in charge of your finances but he still signs checks from time to...
Thank you for your help--we have a joint checking account and he gets his paycheck direct deposited into this account (that's why we made it joint, so he can't...
Hi. Take a deep breath. You are not hindering him (no matter what he says). He's trying to dump it all on you (that is what cg's do). He is actively gambling,...
"Why on earth did you purchase a house with this man, knowing he has a gambling problem?" Because he was getting help at the time we started building the house...
Honey. You can tell your family anything you want to tell your family. He is trying to control you. Think about what he has been doing. Think!!!! Melody ... ...
My husband's paycheck continues to be deposited into the account that is now in my name only. If he won't sign off on the account, I would suggest that you...
The fact that he is threatened by you telling him what to do doesn not bode well. You have to have total control over your finances, period. Talk about...
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