.....and would appreciate any helpful words of advice or encouragement. Or even
a straightforward "get out quick" directive.

My story in a nutshell. I've been married a little over four months. I make
more money than he does. As soon as we bought a house together and I found out
I'm pregnant, he starts staying out without telling me where he is or when he
will be home and starts hiding his poker playing from me. I knew he had a
problem, but he supposedly had it under control....he was actively working on
therapy. I knew I was taking a big risk.....I knew deep down what would
inevitably happen......but he was handsome, charming, sensitive.....and I just
wanted to hope for the best. So now he is bargaining with me......let him have
a certain amount of our savings....all of which we would need for the new
baby.....and he cannot see at all anything except his own needs and desires. I
already have three children and I don't think I want to put us all through this
for the rest of our lives. He says he doesn't have a problem.......I don't
think he would have to hide this if he didn't. Please.....what now.


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