Its great to have a new member to stir things up. Its been too quiet
around here. Perhaps your Hawaii trip will give you both some time to
reflect and agree on some ground rules. As hard as it might be, it is a
wise thing for you to be the gatekeeper for all the fiinances, at least
for now. I somehow feel that twenty-five years together is a big
instentive for coming to an agreement. My ony other suggestion is that
you attend gamanon meetings. If they are not available, then alanon.
You find a different focus from your other 12 step program and just the
ticket for those of us who love a CG. I wish you a great time in
Hawaii. Remember its one day at a time.
Jim

sandyalbertathome wrote:

> Sandra and others:
> thanks for writing back. Ya, this is tough.
> I'm in my own recovery so I know we all are responsible
> for our own...recovery that is. I do need support
> from Gamanon. I have support for my recovery but
> this is different. I've told my spouse that I need
> my own support with his addiction and I think he understands that...
> I'm just not sure where I start - financially that is.
> One message I received was that putting everything in
> my name was a good idea so maybe I'll start there...
> it may give me some piece of mind.
> I have access to some literature on cg and have read
> a little. We are leaving for Hawaii next week for
> a vacation we've been planning for awhile -
> I'm hoping that will give us a little breathing room.
> I'll keep reading the posted messages.
> If you could help me get into a chat room/ on line
> meeting, I'd appreciate that. thanks again.
>
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