Well Larry in that case I will have to spread the word that the
reason a woman can turn into a 'cold' mother is the emotional
neglect she suffered from her father, her autistic/Asperger father
maybe???!!!

You see according to my personal experience and some research I have
done, if a woman is emotioanlly withdrawn it is because of the
trauma she experienced becaused of her relationship with her father,
her refregerator father.

You see Freud knew very well how fundamental are the opposite sex
relationships and emotional interactions within a family not ony for
the male child and the mother = Oedipus complex, but also for the
female child and her father = Antigone complex (correct?).

So if you feel compelled to persue and defend the early childhood
trauma and the refregerator mother issue, then I am sure you will
also feel as much compelled to pursue the refregerator father issue
as it is all in the very same picture. And it is about time men take
their due responsibility in this whole issue, don't yoy think???

So what came first, the refregerator mother, or the autistic child?
And what came first, the refregerator father or the female child who
then used the "cold father" role model when she had children of her
own? Because that is what many do not understand: we learn to love
from our relationship with the opposite sex parent. It is the
opposite sex parent that teaches a child how to connect emotionaly
with another person and most importantly with their own opposite sex
child. If boys seem to have more often autism than girls them I am
sorry to teel you but the source of the problem is the mother's
father who was too busy and neglected the emotional needs of his
daughter. He thought as many men do that the wife, will take care of
all that and that he, doesn't have to bother. Well, see what his
attitude did??? Caused AUTISM!

I hope you will spread this word out, too. Thanks!!!

Star

--- In for-and-by-autistics@yahoogroups.com, larry Lyons
<larryd552002@...> wrote:
>
> Sure. I'll join you. But I have to spread the word
> that early trauma--and even neglect--can lead to
> autism; and I refuse to get shouted down. Other than
> that, I will be kind to even the coldest refrigerator
> mom. I will encourage her, protect her and mother
> her.
>
> Yours,
> Larry