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III. Keith's Point of View: How to Apologize?

We all have mistakes. Apologizing is one of the best ways to
make others feeling better and to keep us moving forwards.

It can be very difficult for many of us to apologize as we think
that it is not our fault. If we are part of the cause for the mistake,
it's better to apologize as soon as possible. Apology can be a
very good WD-40 in human relationship. Here are 3 of the
easiest forms of apologies that can be very useful:

1. Partial Apology: It is not all your fault. Then apologize for
the part you are responsible.

2. Apology for Others' Bad Feeling: It is not your fault, but
you involved in it. Then apologize for the bad feeling caused.

3. Behaviour Apology: It is too hard to say sorry? Then do
something to express your apology. A card, a bunch of flowers,
a cup of coffee....

Keith To
Ideas & Thoughts of Keith To: www.keithto.ws

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IV. You Can Attend: The New Creativity Trip

Just spend 2 or 4 days, you are going to transform
yourself, becoming Extra-Ordinarily Creative!

I am not teasing, Only 4 Seats Left!

Life is Difficult!

People found life becoming more and more difficult in the
past few years. Yes, the world is changing so fast that all our
"old" ways of doing things seem to be expired. This trend will
be continued and becoming more acute than ever before!

Without creativity to draw out new ways, your life can be even
more difficult!

Becoming Creative - We Must & We Can Keep Up with
the World!

I planned to launch the Creativity Trip a year ago. During the
trip, you can play, have fun and learn, all at the same time!

We all spend only 3.5 hours a day meeting, and learning how
to be extra-ordinarily creative for a consecutive 6 days. The
originally proposed venue is somewhere in Taiwan. That's the
"problem"!

Many of our friends emailed me with concern about the location:

1. The potential instability of Taiwan (politically)!
2. 6 days is too much for many people. They have already spent
their annual leave somewhere!
3. Taiwan, can be a bit quite expensive. Air-ticket plus hotel,
quite a lot of money!

So, I must be "creative" to solve the "problem"!

Here is the New Creativity Trip Program:

1. The new location is changed to Zhong Shan (¤¤¤s). Travelling
costs you less than $200! The hotel is also very economical.

2. The program is split into 2 parts. You can join either or both.
You can still get great stuff from any or both of the 2 Modules.  

Module 1: Sept 21-22 2006 (Thur + Fri) - Working Creative!
2 never-disclosed-before Methodologies are shared in these 2
days.

Module 2: Sept 23-24 2006 (Sat + Sun) - Being Creative!
2 mental models to make yourself being Extra-Ordinarily
Creative!!!

Again, for each day, we meet only for 3.5 hours. The rest of the
time is for you to have fun by yourself!

For the first day of both modules (Sept 21 and 23), the class
starts in the evening. So that you can come to Zhong Shan in the
afternoon. It takes you only 1.5 hours for the travelling.

How Effective are the Techniques?

I used them personally in the past decade. It helps me
creating all the stuff I designed and delivered! If you know me,
I have a reputation of generating endless ideas!

The content of the program is kept highly confidential, but it is
extra-ordinarily useful and with great impacts. Only those who
attended will know fully about them. Outsiders can't know a
single bit!

Time of Program:
Sept 21: 7:30pm - 11:00pm; Sept 22: 10:00am - 1:30pm
Sept 23: 7:30pm - 11:00pm; Sept 24: 10:00am - 1:30pm 

Program Fee:
Module 1 only: HK$1,000
Module 2 only: HK$1,000
Both Modules: HK$ 1,600 ($400 Discounted!)

For less than two thousands dollars, you make a life
investment for yourself, your career, your business and
your life!!!

Just send an email to keithto@... to register.
Tell me which module (or both modules) you are registering.
No payment yet. You only pay later.

For more details, go to the "old" website: www.creativitytrip.com.

Just spend 2 or 4 days, you are going to transform
yourself, becoming Extra-Ordinarily Creative!!!

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V. My Career Development Tips: Top 5 Ways to Make
Yourself Under-Paid
by Keith To

People always complaining that they are under-paid. They are
so smart and hardworking but their boss doesn't pay according
to their true values.

If this is you, think again. Can you be the one who make
yourself under-paid? Here are my top 5 ways one can make
him/herself under-paid:

1. You haven't asked for a raise. How can you boss know you
want more? Most of the bosses are under very limited budget.
They want to save more. If you don't ask, they seldom pay you
more.

2. You haven't done the extra. If you want extra money, do
something extra. This is so simple but not too many people will
do so. It can be not fair at the beginning. But when you get a
raise, others will say that this is not fair.

3. You haven't make yourself liked by others. Then it is very
difficult to give you more money or a promotion. It will upset too
many people.

4. You haven't keep your skills and knowledge updated.
You are too "out". No matter how hard you work, you can't
generate enough output to justify a raise!

5. You haven't make yourself valuable to your company
and your boss. Rare things are valuable. Rare skills and
knowledge are valuable too. Do you have anything valuable?

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VI. Recent Postings of Ideas & Thoughts of Keith To

Philosophy of Life and Philosophy of Living

Can NLP be someone's philosophy of life? No!!!

NLP is just the technique of modeling. How can a technique be
a life philosophy!

Furthermore, Traditional NLP just models people's body, mind
and their relationship. It lacks the Spirit and Soul elements. It
can't be a good philosophy of Life.

Though it can't be a good philosophy of Life, but it can be a
philosophy of living. When we can use this technique to model
our and others' body, mind and their relationship, we can know
how to live better.

But if we can step a bit more "meta", we might be able to use
the techique to model the Spirit and Soul Elements. Then, this
is no more Traditional NLP. In these few years, I am thinking
and researching how we can model these extra elements.

Keith

(Posted on Sept 13 2006)

Go to www.keithto.ws to see all other postings!

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VIII. Free Da Vinci Notes

This is my new service for you. The greatest genius, Da Vinci
had left 1,566 pieces of notes to the world.

There are lots of wisdom there.

I will email one piece of note per day to those who subscribed to
this new service. Along with his notes is my own ideas. This is
not my interpretation of his notes. I don't think that I have that
kind of intelligence to do so. It is just my ideas and thoughts.

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