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卓越生命雙週刊
Excel Your Life Newsletter: Feb 18 2006

讓你提升你自己的生命而發行的電郵週刊...

Content:
 
I.  From the eDesk of Dr. Keith To
II. Weekly Cut & Paste: 在生命的轉彎處
III. Keith's Point of View: 聰明上司 + 聰明下屬
IV. You Can Attend: Systemic Thinking Course
V. My Personal Development Tips: Top 5 Daily Habits for a
Clearer Mind
VI. Subscribe to our "Quote for Your Soul" Service
VII. Recent Postings of "Ideas & Thoughts of Keith To"
VIII. Free Da Vinci Notes
IX. Tell a Friend
 
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I. From the eDesk of Dr. Keith To
 
Hi and welcome again. Happy Chinese New Year!
 
1. 你的 2006預測研討會 - 監視趨勢,掌握趨勢和超越2006年
的趨勢!
 
又是一年一度的預測研討會,你將在這個免費的研討會中聽
聽我對2006年的預測(不保證準確!),同時瞭解未來世界的10
種最有潛力的科技和25項 「微觀」全球趨勢。有興趣者請電
keithto@...登記,座位有限。
 
日期:2006年2月27日;下午7點30分 -下午9點30分
地點:聖雅各福群會
 
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讀二月二十八日開班之免費10小時身心語言程序學精要課
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保持10小時,分四個晚上舉行,每節兩小時三十分,報名請
即到 http://www.sjsmile.com/freetalk/details.php?freetalkid=58 
登記,名額真的絕對有限,決不再度加班,請通知有興趣學習
的朋友報讀,課程簡介如下:
 
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時間:7:30PM-10:00PM
3. 有時候我們難免會陷入「枯井」裡,週遭的人不但沒有幫助
你爬出來,還會以各式各樣的「泥沙」傾倒在我們身上, 甚至
找來更多旁人落井下石,我們可以怎樣呢?今期的Weekly Cut
& Paste的文章-如何從生命中的枯井脫困,實在給了我現實
積極的啟發。
 
3. 山不轉,路轉;路不轉,人轉,短短數字就清晰地描繪了改
變的真義,今期的重點文章在生命的轉彎處告訴了我:光明可
能就在在生命的轉彎處
 
4. Email List of Ideas & Thoughts of Keith To. Ideas &
Thoughts of Keith To is my blogsite. I update it once 2 to 3 days
with useful information about NLP, Hypnosis, Coaching, Facilitation,
Personal and Business Development. If you want to receive my
articles once I posted to the blogsite, join our Email List by sending
 
You can also go to www.keithto.ws to see all my previous articles
posted.
 
 
Keith To

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II. Weekly Cut & Paste: 在生命的轉彎處
文/ Unknown

山不轉,路轉;路不轉,人轉。只要心念一轉,逆境也能成助
緣。我常說一個人跌倒,往往不是被一座高山壓倒,而是被一
粒小石頭絆倒。人生有很多轉彎處,懂得如何轉彎相當重要。
轉得過去,人生一片坦然;轉不過去,從此跌倒。而這關鍵往
往在於「心念」;心念能轉,逆境也會變成助緣。

記得十六歲那年我因誤觸高壓電,導致失去雙手、右小腿,右
眼也喪失視力。當時許多人認為我會因此被擊倒,他們覺得我
最好的職業,是到夜市菜市場找個地方坐,前面放個大碗公,
就會有很好的收入。雖然我失去很多,但我決心讓自己成為坦
蕩的人,活的自在、快樂,面帶笑容地站在陽光下。我在心中
吶喊:「無論如何我都要站起來,這些折磨對我而言不是障礙
,如果是障礙,也一定要化解。我要堅強地走出去!」

抱著「山不轉,路轉;路不轉,我轉」的理念,我慢慢克服困
難;從日常生活起居一切自理,到以嘴咬筆、自學自畫,走出
自己的一片天空。佛教說:「境隨心轉」,重要的就是要能「
善解」。我的腳走路會痛,走快一點就是痛快!我感恩地想:
幸好腳還能走路、還能走這麼快!

一個人的價值觀非常重要。前陣子有大專生當牛郎被警察抓到
,記者訪問他的同學,得到的回答卻是:「做這行不錯啊!他
也是憑能力賺錢啊!」由此可知價值觀錯誤,做出來的行為就
偏差了。

除了價值觀,毅力也很重要。我曾經和慈濟人去看一位殘障朋
友,他年輕時不學好,當兵退伍回來被人砍傷,而且他有吸食
強力膠的習慣,身體不時發抖。我們到他家門口即聞到一股怪
味,進門探看一片漆黑,才知斷電已個把月。他看到有人來,
便拿椅子給我們坐,椅子一層灰,他用來擦椅子的布卻比椅子
還髒;一鍋煮好的飯放到長霉,霉菌還會生煙浮上來。最後他
還告訴我:「一個人要放棄自己,也是需要下很大的毅力。」

在這堙A我看到人生百態。想想看,如果把這股毅力轉成助力
,該有多大的力量!

我到醫院當志工,也遇到一些發人深省的例子。

有一位潘小姐,她的一生只能用不幸來形容。她被媽媽打、摔
到牆壁,導致下半身不遂,到目前為止動過大小手術三十幾次
。她很開朗,我鼓勵她:「每一個人都是最棒的!」她媽媽一
直說她沒用,我說:「妳決不是!就像當初我也是大家眼中沒
有希望的人,但是我終究可以發揮所長。」

還有一位病人見到我便說:「我認識你,你能不能教我笑?我
一直哭,一天哭二十四小時。」她遭逢瓦斯爆炸的意外,手燒
得變形,全身皮膚沒有一寸完整、頭髮不見了、眉毛稀稀疏疏
、耳朵剩三分之一。以前她的女兒看到她都黏在身邊撒嬌,現
在看到她則躲在牆角哭。聽完她的敘述,我問她:「如果今天
發生意外的不是妳,而是妳八歲的女兒,妳願不願意代替她承
受這樣的苦?」答案是:「我願意!」

每個人的人生遭遇各不相同,最重要的還是自己怎麼想。自從
我受傷後,我一直體會「感恩」。當時很多人要放棄我,包括
我的父親,但是我沒有對他產生一絲絲的怨恨,因為我看到父
親的偉大──阿公沒有讓父親受過一天教育,父親卻讓我受了
六年國小教育。我認識字、聽得懂、也看得懂,可以自我掌控
時間。有七年的時間,我一個人在家獨處,沒有朋友,每天寫
字、看電視、讀報紙,不會孤獨寂寞,所以我感恩父親。

我也曾告訴媽媽:「當初妳沒有放棄我,現在我站起來了,希
望做到沒有讓妳白救我,因為妳給我兩次生命,我一定要活得
更有意義、更有朝氣,甚至要活得對別人有幫助!」到最後,
父母親的後事還是我幫忙料理才圓滿完成,他們決想不到竟然
是我這個手腳殘缺的兒子幫他們處理後事。

自從我擔任志工以來,便有一種體會:不要拿我們所擁有的,
去襯托別人所沒有的。我總是以感恩之心來看待事情:感恩讓
我學習、讓我體會。但願大家能以更寬廣的心,來面對一切事
物,並且記得,在生命的轉彎處,仍有無限光明。 
 

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III. Keith's Point of View: 聰明上司 + 聰明下屬

 
從某本刊物的笑話版中看到以下一則:
 
聰明上司 + 笨下屬 = 生產力
笨上司 + 聰明下屬 = 升職
笨上司 + 下屬 = OT
聰明上司 + 聰明下屬 = 利潤
 
我覺得不僅令人會心一笑外,而且這更是事實,怪不得每天只是
聽到企業內的上司下屬們在說什麼提升生產力、如何升職又或投
訴那麼多的OT,他們好像忘記了企業必須盈利的基本原則,因為
可能聰明上司 + 聰明下屬的組合實在太少了!
 
作為上司,不要怕下屬過於聰明 (世上那有過於聰明這回事,如
果真的是聰明,就不會做出所謂過於聰明的事!);作為下屬,不
足找不聰明的上司,否則你只會在一家不能盈利的企業中升職,
最後的下場可想而知。
 
多點聰明,少點笑話!
 
什麼是聰明?不太聰明的我認為懂得思維可能就是聰明吧!
 

Keith To
Ideas & Thoughts of Keith To:
www.keithto.ws

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IV. You Can Attend: Systemic Thinking Course
 

Systemic Thinking系統思維不是系統思維系統思維

 

系統思維是有條理地、有方法地去思想,但所謂方法只是人

類的產品,所以它們絕不能夠準確地反映現實世界,在今天的

快速轉變環境中,所有方法都變得過分遠離現實。

 

今天所謂的系統思維只是「系統動態」Systems Dynamics

它僅僅是系統思維的一小部分,「系統動態」是研究事情如何

彼此互相影響的思維方式,「系統動態」並不是簡單容易明白

 

系統思維系統思維都是有用的,只是Systemic Thinking

系統思維是不同而矣

 

系統思維涵蓋除了「系統動態」外的系統思維所有其他部

分,思維就是洞悉複雜情境和問題的簡單思考技術,

系統思維系統思維的好處置於任何人伸手可及的範

圍內

 

系統思維把難題當成系統觀察,再系統地解拆問題的組

元素,後研究它們是如何共同運作,從而找出最佳答

 

當你面對的處境越複雜(例子:今天的世界),你越能夠從

系統思維中獲得好處,這可以說是本世紀其中一個最佳

的解決問題和創意的技術。

 

你將從本課程中學懂極少人談及,但卻極為有用的系統

思維技術,其中包括開放系統思維軟系統思維,與及

生存發展系統思維等等,這些技術原本只是能運用於系統

科學家手中,但現在你卻能得以掌握,讓你能看通世界,

解決本應無法解決的難題!

 

Systemic Thinking Course是Keith To 2006年一個最新的

課程,也是在Diploma in Systemic People Development

系統個人發展文憑和Diploma in Systemic Business

Development系統商業發展文憑的必修單元,上述兩個文

憑課程都接受你以前從聖雅各福群會修讀的課程的學分轉

移,像註冊企業教練課程,註冊個人教練課程, NLP 執行

課程等等。

 

Systemic Thinking Course將會是你的一個極具啟發性的課

程!

 

課程為你帶來的好處:你將會理解和發現世界更廣闊更深!

 

日期:315日,2229日,200647

時間:7:30pm – 10:00pm

費用:1,600元(聖雅各福群會會員)/1,800 ( 非會員 )

Diploma in Systemic Development創辦特別優惠$ 800/$1,000

特別優惠僅適用於Keith To課程目前或過去的參加者


主辦單位:聖雅各福群會

查詢:2835-4394 Richard Fung 聖雅各福群會


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V. My Personal Development Tips: Top 5 Daily Habits for a

Clearer Mind

by Keith To

 

Everyone wants a clearer mind. You can then achieve more and

makes far less mistakes. Here are my top 5 daily habits for a

clearer mind:

 

1. Daily Goals. Forget your daily tasks list. Even you complete

everything on your tasks list, you can accomplish nothing. Every

morning, tell yourself what you want to achieve today. Then you

live your day with a clear direction.

 

2. Talk to Someone with a Clear Mind. 5 to 10 minutes each

day is good enough.

 

3. Healthy Diet. What you eat affects your mind. Eat more

veggies. Water is also important for your brain to function

properly. Talk to a licensed nutritionist. He/she can give you

valable advices.

 

4. Tell the Truth. Then you do not need to waste your brain

power for more lies to support your lies.

 

5. Stop Gossiping. When you involve in gossips, sooner or later,

you will find yourself confused with the truth and the untruth, the

right and the wrong, the real and the unreal.


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This article is written by 
Keith To, Authorized RCC Instructor

of the Worldwide Association of Business Coaches.

Keith works with successful people and helps them to achieve

even more in their lives, their careers and their businesses. Go to

information to improve yourself and your business.
 
You are welcomed to circulate this article to anyone you like.
But you must not change anything and must include the above
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VI. Free Quote for Your Soul - Kick-start Your Day with a
Great Quote

Quote for Your Soul is a great free service from

I love this service so much that I always tell people to subscribe
to it. You can get lots of inspirations from great words of the
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Everyday you receive a great quote of great people from me
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VI. Recent Postings of Ideas & Thoughts of Keith To
 
Coaching: Does Coach Give Advise?
 
This is an old question. Some say yes and some say no.

My opinion is "no".

If we coaches give advises, then what is the difference between
a coach and a consultant and/or trainer?

Many authorities in our field will tell you to give advises when your
clients ask you to do so. Their rationale is that when our clients
need advises, it is then our responsibility to give.

I just can't agree with this.

Your clients will surely need advises if you are willing to give.
Everyone wants shortcuts to their problems. "Everyone"
includes clients and coaches.

Coaches give advises only because they want to give.

It seems to be easier for coaches when they can't help their
clients to find their own answers. Advises just block the clients'
way for their own answers. Coaching minimizes dependence
because we do not give advises. We "train" our clients to
uncover their own, and to think wider and deeper. Giving
advises reduces the width and the depth of clients' thinking.
It hurts in a long run than help!

It is our profession to help others through questioning, just
like a teacher helps his/her students through teaching. Could
a teacher sit in the examination for his/her students simply
because he/she can't teach them to be successful in learning?

Coaching has its limitations. When we can't help our clients
through coaching, we can then discuss with them to seek other
professional services in order to solve their problem, or refer
them to a coach who can help them better.

Do I give advise to my clients? Yes, when it is an emergence.
When my clients is going to hurt themselves or others, when
they are going to do something illegal, I will advise them to
think again!

In many scenorios, coaching can't help much. But I still respect
my profession. I do what I suppose to do!

Keith
 
(Posted on Feb 2 2006)
 
Go to www.keithto.ws to see all other postings!
 
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VIII. Free Da Vinci Notes
 
This is my new service for you. The greatest genius, Da Vinci
had left 1,566 pieces of notes to the world.
 
There are lots of wisdom there.
 
I will email one piece of note per day to those who subscribed to
this new service. Along with his notes is my own ideas. This is
not my interpretation of his notes. I don't think that I have that
kind of intelligence to do so. It is just my ideas and thoughts.
 
If you want to learn from this great man, join us by just sending a
 
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