sounds like your school nurse is on a power trip. Happens alot in the medical profession, especially in nurses. I think all school nurses had to be RNs, although that might vary by state.  You might check her licensing, and check out the schools legal liability.  I had this problem at work, but with no nurse involvement which was worse, A bunck of office managers trying to skick spoons in my mouth.  Anytime I had a seizure they called the ambulance instead of my husband, but it was all legal reasons. if they have to get him out of the school then call a family member. Also if he has them that often, doesnt he qualify for disability, in which case might help with the home schooling idea. That age is tough to be in school anyway, especially with this condition. I know better than anyone.