Dear Patrick, Bernie, Rebecca and All, I couldn't agree with Bernie and Rebecca more! They are giving excellent advice. I do just want to add that one of the beauties of good therapy or counseling is that these greatly assist a person in getting the strength and insight to do what they recommend. Often, we can not stand alone. We need the support of someone who really understands where we come from, how we feel and is astute in encouraging the steps that we are ready to take at each moment. I am a therapist and I know the difference it can make!
Any questions or comments? All my best to all of you-Dr.Barbara Becker Holstein