do u live together? do you have seperate friends or
activities...the first thing it do is to start to find yourself
seperate from who you are with him. look into clubs groups or
organizations in your area who can give you something to do with you
time apart from him..maybe classes on things like learning to paint
or knitt...craft stores like michales have these aalmost every
weekend...or home depot offers classes on home remodeling...find
something u like to do...and go out and do it...once you get used to
spending time without him doing other things....slowly u will be
able to rebuild your life full of things that dont includde
him...and thing will start to come together a lot easier



--- In emsfirepoliceptsd@yahoogroups.com, Lady Char
<charmcitywolf@y...> wrote:
> thank you...I wish I knew how to end it...sigh...
>
> iiovelife <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote:that can be hard i have
been in a few relationship with men who were
> not ina good place mentally...it can be hard...especially when u
> want to help them and make them better and you cant because they
> either dont want it or are not capable of it...i have finall moved
on
> after 3 years with a man ...who as reggie (another group memebr)
can
> vouch for me...is not ready to get over his mental issues...and
> doesnt wanna get over them...
>
>
>
> --- In emsfirepoliceptsd@yahoogroups.com, Lady Char
> <charmcitywolf@y...> wrote:
> > Present...yes I am in therapy for it...hope to make it past :)
> >
> > iiovelife <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote:that is hard is this
a
> past or present relationship? are you in
> > therapy also?
> >
> >
> > --- In emsfirepoliceptsd@yahoogroups.com, Lady Char
> > <charmcitywolf@y...> wrote:
> > > Thank you...my PTSD comes from relationship with a diagnosed
> > bipolar man and who is undiagnosed with borderline personality
> > disorder...
> > >
> > > iiovelife <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote:of course u are
> welcome
> > this group is open to anyone affiliated in
> > > the fields in any ways, and thier families who may be trying
to
> > deal
> > > with any kind trauma. welcome to the group.
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > --- In emsfirepoliceptsd@yahoogroups.com, Char M
> > <charmcitywolf@y...>
> > > wrote:
> > > > Thank you! I am in the law enforcement field, not an
officer,
> so
> > I
> > > hope I am welcome here...I am a secretary for a major in a
> homicide
> > > section. I look forward to getting to know you all.
> > > >
> > > > Char
> > > >
> > > > iiovelife <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
> > > > hi all we have a few new memebrs i justw anted to say
welcome,
> > > please
> > > > feel free to introduce yourself..tell us about you and what
> > brought
> > > u
> > > > here if you like, or sit back and watch. all new members
are
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posted
> on
> > > the
> > > > site. please feel free to say anything you like as long as
you
> > are
> > > not
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> gladly
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> > > >
> > > > amy
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