--- In emotionalabuse@yahoogroups.com, "becklessness"
<becklessness@...> wrote:
>
> Hello Susan. Hello other posters. Just stumbled across this board. I
> think we might know each other from another workplace bullying board?
> I don't know why, but your moniker is familiar to me.
>
> Becky
>
> **************************************
> **************************************
>
> --- In emotionalabuse@yahoogroups.com, "s_futterman"
> <s_futterman@y...> wrote:
> > From what I understand (and I am not a lawyer), you only have legal
> > recourse if you can tie the verbal abuse into one of the classes
> > protected by law, primarily under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act
> > of 1964. ... e.g., race, gender, ethnicity ,etc. Those with
> > disabilities and aged 40 and above also have some protections.
> >
> > Susan
> > www.mytoxicboss.com
> >
> > --- In emotionalabuse@yahoogroups.com, Cornell Turner
> > <turnercornell20032001@y...> wrote:
> > >
> > > Here's a question.
> > > what do you do if a person cuses at you?
> > > Well if it's mouth are open wide, put a soap in it's mouth.
> > > C Turner
> > >
> > > Sandra <greenidblnd@a...> wrote:That's what they call him at
> > other firms he's worked. He curses at
> > > us, calls us names ranging from "stupid" to "monkeys" to "idiots"
> > and
> > > on and on. He berates people in front of everyone, says he's the
> > only
> > > one with any intelligence (obviously not) and generally rants and
> > > raves over totally insignificant things. On a daily basis he
> > > threatens "firing the whole bunch of stupid ass-----" --you get
> the
> > > picture.
> > >
> > > We are a small law office. The other partner has no spine
> > whatsoever
> > > and just goes along with the program. I've been here 3 years --
> > > longer than most -- and I'm ready to get out. Nothing is worth
> > this
> > > type of abuse. I just can't imagine why it isn't against the law
> > to
> > > treat people like this. Most of us put up with it because the job
> > > market is poor right now in our line of work and they pay us very
> > > well. But, it is no longer worth the headaches or stress that we
> > have
> > > to endure daily with this guy.
> > >
> > > Is there anything that can be done about this man? Is he legally
> > > entitled to do this and we either take it or move on? I'd be
> > > interested in knowing about alternatives. If I thought there was
> > any
> > > chance at all of stopping his madness by suing him, I'd do it in a
> > > heartbeat. He doesn't frighten me -- just makes me want to vomit.
> > >
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I Have been called a Stupid f___
a idiot, I dont need women in MY kitchen
Shut your F______ mouth or I will shut it for you.
It should be against the law and they should be held accountable and
SUED. Both the company and the people who are harrassing you.
Carrying a concelled tape recorder, you can find them cheap.
And let them know you got one It will stop.
Tell them I have a tape recorder on me and everything you say to me is
being recorded.
And check with the laws you may not even HAVE TO TELL them at all that
you do have it.
I wished I had one at this time, that I was being harrassed.
I would now OWN the company and the person who assulted, and threaten
me would be behind bars.
Good luck, and let me know what happens.
Terri Koob
--- In emotionalabuse@yahoogroups.com, "Nikki" <darkladystorm@...> wrote:
>
> Can a parent abuse their child even after they are grown up? For the
> last few years, I've felt like my dad has verbally and emotionally
> abused me, and recently, we had an incident where I had to call the
> cops to get him to calm down. He was swearing at me, yelling,
> screaming, throwing things, and even attempted to throw my PC monitor
> at me. I'm still truly scared out of my mind that I don't know what to
> do... I'm scared to stay at home (I've been living with him since my
> mom died...) Can any of you give me any kind of advice? Thank you...
>
Yes once a abuser always a abuser.
They have to put others down to make themselves feel better than
anyone else.
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--- In emotionalabuse@yahoogroups.com, "wrs85muze" <wrs85muze@...> wrote:
>
>
> Just left a job with one of the worst bully bosses I have ever
> encountered. Started a new job where I found several bullies and
> also strong evidence that they are well versed in bullying.
>
> My gut belief is that the department manager wants to change this
> environment, of course they can't fire everyone so it is a matter of
> trying to slowly work on their behavior and bring in new people with
> more team spirit values. There is where the mobbing comes in, these
> folks have worked here from 10 to 30 years, some have never worked
> anywhere else. I believe they think the bullying in normal and are
> resistant to change. Some just enjoy being able to get there own way.
> They are determined not to let any new people in because the manager
> always picks people that are less prone to bullying and the others
> can't have that. So i am the latest target.
>
> I have been thinking about educating my manager about bullying and
> mobbing, I'm not sure she recognizes all that is going on in her
> department. Don't know if this is a good idea or not.
>
> Any suggestions, insights, experiences with doing same would be
> greatly appreciated.
>
> thanks,
> wrs85muze
>
start to carry a tape recorder with you. So you have PROOF.
I wished now I carried a tape recorder so that the people at the
Amethyst Gardens in Peoria AZ would of done something about it maybe
they would have but, to me they did not care.
The verball assults and the emotional abuse I took from Tony, are
still effecting me today.
Especially the treat I wish I had that on tape, He would of been
arrested and prosectuted. He would be behind bars.
I am still in the process of filing more complaints, I am writing a
letter, to the US suprem courts about this.
The laws need to be changed, and p[eople need to be SUE as well as the
people who close there eyes and let this happen, as well as the companys.
Terri Koob
--- In emotionalabuse@yahoogroups.com, MooGooPooh wrote:
>
> I am a 6 1/2 year survivor of Domestic Violence.
> And know the signs of abuse. These are the same types
> of signs. And I need to have it end.<br>My homelife
> is wonderful!!!!!! And if it wasn't for that. I do
> not know what the heck I would do.
>
Men who verbally assult women in the workplace or at home have some
real issues.
It is against the law to verbally assult or harrass or threaten
anyone, outside the workplace or inside.
I was a victum of a verbal assult, at my last job Amethsyt Gardens in
Peoria AZ. I was also threaten by the person who was in chage in the
kitchen, Tony was always saying stuff, then he went to the point of
threatening me, told me to shut my F mouth or he would shut it for me.
I went to adminstrator Ellen and NOTHING was done she believed him
over me, of course he deined it.
Then I also told the dietary manager, Sandy she told me he was trained
to do it that way.
2 weeks later I WAS fired. I went a filed a complaint to the district
office and NOTHING was done.
Tony is a very abusive person. At least to me he was.
He thought he was this big person, ordering people around like he was
so much better than anyone and that no one could touch him, he
basically did and said WHAT he wanted to.
And no one did nothing about it.
They let him do whatever he wanted to and it was okay by Sandy.
I am the victum and now I will file as many complaints against the
Amethyst Gardens, in Peoria AZ as I possibly can.
Thank you,
And I wish you the same.
Terri Koob
--- gerryduffett47 <gerryduffett47@...> wrote:
> Hi
>
> Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
>
> Thank you for raising awareness about this issue.
>
> Best wishes in the future.
>
> -----------------------
>
> Gerry Duffett
> 14-4218 Lawrence Ave E Box 218
> Scarborough Ontario
> Canada M1E4X9
>
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> gerryduffett47@...
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