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MJSMOLLER, THANKS! I HAVE REPORTED THEM TO THE DRS I WORK FOR, BUT
I AM AFRAID IF THEY SAY SOMETHING TO H1 AND H2 THAT THEY WILL TURN
EVERYONE AGAINST ME AND THEN IN TURN BE EVEN MORE HATEFUL TO ME.
SHE (H1) ACTS LIKE SHE WANTS TO BE MY FRIEND AWAY FROM THE OFFICE,
BUT WHEN I COME TO WORK SHE IS SO HATEFUL. MY HUSBAND HAS STOPPED
ME FROM ANSWERING THE PHONE AT HOME. HE SAYS THAT THE ABUSE DOESN'T
HAVE TO HAPPEN WHILE IM IN MY OWN HOME, SO I QUIT ANSWERING THE
PHONE. NOW THEY RIB ME FOR NOT ANSWERING THE PHONE AT HOME, ITS
LIKE THEY HAVE MY OFFICE AND HOME BUGGED, OR EITHER SOMEONE I AM
CONFIDING IN IS TELLING THEM EVERYTHING. I JUST HAVE TO HAVE SOME
PEACE SOMEWHERE. I REALLY RELY ON GOD FOR MY SANITY, AND SOMETIMES
I WONDER WHY I HAVE TO ENDURE THIS KIND OF ABUSE, BUT JESUS ENDURED
ALOT MORE THAN I WILL EVER ENDURE. THANK YOU FOR BEING SO NICE AND
SUPPORTIVE I WISH I HAD KNOWN ABOUT THIS SITE YEARS AGO. I HAVE FELT
SO ALONE FOR SO LONG. GOD BLESS!




Wed Nov 5, 2003 8:53 pm

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I HAVE BEEN WORKING IN MY PRESENT JOB FOR ALMOST 6 YEARS. THE PEOPLE THAT I WORK FOR ARE VERY NICE, GOOD PEOPLE. MY PROBLEM IS THAT THE PEOPLE (WOMEN) THAT I...
chickenslinga
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Nov 5, 2003
5:33 pm

Hello there chickenslinga, I know what you've gone through, and I've been there before (both in the workplace and home, until i fixed the home problem by ...
classical sweetheart
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Nov 5, 2003
5:52 pm

CLASSICAL SWEETHEART, THANKS FOR RESPONDING, I AM A CHRISTIAN WOMAN WHO I KNOW I HAVE TO DO WHATS RIGHT FOR ME AND WHAT GOD EXPECTS, ITS JUST SO HARD TO NOT BE...
chickenslinga
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Nov 5, 2003
6:00 pm

Sounds familiar--Check out my couple of posts. I agree about the jealousy thing--or else many times if you're a soft- natured person, they may see you as a...
mjsmoller
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Nov 5, 2003
8:26 pm

MJSMOLLER, THANKS! I HAVE REPORTED THEM TO THE DRS I WORK FOR, BUT I AM AFRAID IF THEY SAY SOMETHING TO H1 AND H2 THAT THEY WILL TURN EVERYONE AGAINST ME AND...
chickenslinga
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Nov 5, 2003
9:08 pm

Hi all, I am new on here as of about one month ago. My experience was hell in the workplace and I finally got out of there. I am also a Christian woman....
snucybug2003
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Nov 6, 2003
6:29 pm

snucybug, thanks for such inspiring words and concern, i have had a better day today, and i do believe its because there are others like me out there praying...
chickenslinga
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Nov 6, 2003
10:20 pm

well here we go, another week of torture. this week is starting out confusing. h1 and h2 are being decent, only because they have found someone else to pick...
chickenslinga
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Nov 11, 2003
7:37 pm

... Well, I can't say I understand people like this or how do deal with them but I certainly understand where you are coming from! What exactly do they do to...
snucybug2003
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Nov 11, 2003
9:54 pm

to snucybug2003 for instance, i have around 27 days of vacation i have accumilated over the last year or so. our vacations days roll over and we arent ...
chickenslinga
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Nov 12, 2003
4:48 pm

I like everyone's posts. I'm sorry we're in this boat, but I'm glad there are some of us in it together so we can share. One thing I've noticed as a form of...
mjsmoller
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Nov 12, 2003
6:57 pm

Hi, Yeah, sounds like abuse in the workplace! It is unfortunate it exists, but I am convinced it does not exist in all places. If you speak up in some places,...
snucybug2003
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Nov 13, 2003
9:58 pm

Ok, i'm the one who wrote about being in the mental health field and taking lots of garbage from certain people. So there's this one lady at my internship who...
mjsmoller
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Nov 14, 2003
1:22 am

Hi, That sounds horrible. I am praying for you for things to improve. If not, sometimes it is best to leave, can you find another site to complete your...
snucybug2003
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Nov 14, 2003
2:26 pm

Thanks for your support snucy! Actually, leaving isn't always such a good option with field placement, because you do lose hours while they're finding you a...
mjsmoller
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Nov 18, 2003
6:35 pm

WELL HERE WE GO AGAIN, ANOTHER YEAR OF HELL!!!!! I COULD ONLY REVELL IN THE FEW DAYS OF NICENESS DURING THE HOLIDAYS. WE HAD THE TOTAL OF A WEEK OFF. H1 AND...
chickenslinga
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