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I HAVE BEEN WORKING IN MY PRESENT JOB FOR ALMOST 6 YEARS. THE
PEOPLE THAT I WORK FOR ARE VERY NICE, GOOD PEOPLE. MY PROBLEM IS
THAT THE PEOPLE (WOMEN) THAT I WORK WITH ARE HATEFUL, MEAN SPIRITED,
JEALOUS, AND JUST PLAIN ****HY. THEY (I WILL CALL THEM HATER 1 AND
HATER 2) ARE CONSTANLTY FINDING SOMETHING WRONG WITH EVERYTHING I DO
AND SAY. I HAVE NO GOOD DAY AT WORK, AND IF IT LOOKS LIKE MY DAY IS
GOING GOOD, WATCH OUT H1 AND H2 ARE ON THE PROWL. H1 TRIED TO
PRETEND SHE WAS MY FRIEND FOR THE LONGEST TIME, ONLY TO FIGURE OUT
IF I CONFIDED IN HER ABOUT SOMETHING, SHE TOLD EVERYBODY. SHE IS
THE TYPE TO TURN EVERYTHING AROUND ON YOU, EVERYTHING YOU SAY OR DO
IS WRONG OR YOUR FAULT, EVEN THOUGH SHE IS THE ONE WHO IS WRONG. H2
IS HER LITTLE CRONEY, OR LAP DOG, OR WHATEVER AND H1 SICKS HER ON ME
AND EVERYBODY ELSE. I AM AFRAID TO SAY ANYTHING, FOR FEAR THEY WILL
TELL ON ME AND GET ME IN TROUBLE WITH THE BOSS. I HAVE TOLD BOTH MY
BOSSES I WAS SICK OF THERE PICKING ON ME AND EVERYBODY ELSE, BUT
THEY WANT TO GO SAY SOMETHING TO THEM, AND I WONT LET THEM, CAUSE IT
WILL MAKE THINGS 10 TIMES WORSE ON ME. THESE PEOPLE ( H1 AND H2 )
ARE THE MOST VINDICTIVE, HATEFUL PEOPLE I KNOW. PLEASE HELP ME FIND
SOME BACKBONE, CONFIDENCE, I NEED HELP, I HAVE EVEN CONSIDERED
SUICIDE. I NEED MY JOB AND I LIKE WHAT I DO. PLEASE HELP>




Wed Nov 5, 2003 5:31 pm

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I HAVE BEEN WORKING IN MY PRESENT JOB FOR ALMOST 6 YEARS. THE PEOPLE THAT I WORK FOR ARE VERY NICE, GOOD PEOPLE. MY PROBLEM IS THAT THE PEOPLE (WOMEN) THAT I...
chickenslinga
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Nov 5, 2003
5:33 pm

Hello there chickenslinga, I know what you've gone through, and I've been there before (both in the workplace and home, until i fixed the home problem by ...
classical sweetheart
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Nov 5, 2003
5:52 pm

CLASSICAL SWEETHEART, THANKS FOR RESPONDING, I AM A CHRISTIAN WOMAN WHO I KNOW I HAVE TO DO WHATS RIGHT FOR ME AND WHAT GOD EXPECTS, ITS JUST SO HARD TO NOT BE...
chickenslinga
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Nov 5, 2003
6:00 pm

Sounds familiar--Check out my couple of posts. I agree about the jealousy thing--or else many times if you're a soft- natured person, they may see you as a...
mjsmoller
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Nov 5, 2003
8:26 pm

MJSMOLLER, THANKS! I HAVE REPORTED THEM TO THE DRS I WORK FOR, BUT I AM AFRAID IF THEY SAY SOMETHING TO H1 AND H2 THAT THEY WILL TURN EVERYONE AGAINST ME AND...
chickenslinga
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Nov 5, 2003
9:08 pm

Hi all, I am new on here as of about one month ago. My experience was hell in the workplace and I finally got out of there. I am also a Christian woman....
snucybug2003
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Nov 6, 2003
6:29 pm

snucybug, thanks for such inspiring words and concern, i have had a better day today, and i do believe its because there are others like me out there praying...
chickenslinga
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Nov 6, 2003
10:20 pm

well here we go, another week of torture. this week is starting out confusing. h1 and h2 are being decent, only because they have found someone else to pick...
chickenslinga
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Nov 11, 2003
7:37 pm

... Well, I can't say I understand people like this or how do deal with them but I certainly understand where you are coming from! What exactly do they do to...
snucybug2003
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Nov 11, 2003
9:54 pm

to snucybug2003 for instance, i have around 27 days of vacation i have accumilated over the last year or so. our vacations days roll over and we arent ...
chickenslinga
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Nov 12, 2003
4:48 pm

I like everyone's posts. I'm sorry we're in this boat, but I'm glad there are some of us in it together so we can share. One thing I've noticed as a form of...
mjsmoller
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Nov 12, 2003
6:57 pm

Hi, Yeah, sounds like abuse in the workplace! It is unfortunate it exists, but I am convinced it does not exist in all places. If you speak up in some places,...
snucybug2003
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Nov 13, 2003
9:58 pm

Ok, i'm the one who wrote about being in the mental health field and taking lots of garbage from certain people. So there's this one lady at my internship who...
mjsmoller
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Nov 14, 2003
1:22 am

Hi, That sounds horrible. I am praying for you for things to improve. If not, sometimes it is best to leave, can you find another site to complete your...
snucybug2003
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Nov 14, 2003
2:26 pm

Thanks for your support snucy! Actually, leaving isn't always such a good option with field placement, because you do lose hours while they're finding you a...
mjsmoller
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Nov 18, 2003
6:35 pm

WELL HERE WE GO AGAIN, ANOTHER YEAR OF HELL!!!!! I COULD ONLY REVELL IN THE FEW DAYS OF NICENESS DURING THE HOLIDAYS. WE HAD THE TOTAL OF A WEEK OFF. H1 AND...
chickenslinga
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Jan 8, 2004
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