I think it is time to move on. Nine years is long enough. do you have a plan in
place? I would make sure that you have one in place and be ready to put it in
motion.

My relationship with my husband is somewhat similar. He is not a mean man. He
is a good father but neglected to nurture our relationship. We have not had sex
for almost 7 years. Because of that, I had an affair and I am currently
pregnant with a baby as a result of the affair. The father of the baby
disappeared from the scene once I told him I was pregnant.

Get out now before something like this happens to you!!!!!!!!!

Good Luck!

made_in_error <made_in_error@...> wrote:
As a child I knew no diffrent but as I grew up I began to learn right
from wrong. I had abusive parents, physically, mentally, emotionally.
I married and the proccess continued through my husband but not as
bad as my parents. I re-married for the second time which is where I
am requesting help!!!
My 2nd husband is 5years younger than I. We meet some 12years ago,
him knowing my past didnt put him off and he supported me 110%. We
had our 1st child back in 1993. Things between us began to change
almost as soon as she was born. 9years later and many arguments,
fights, heartache, breaking up etc etc Im at the point where I can no
longer live like this.
My husband took the right away from me to feel like a women! Sex is
rear between us 'I carnt call it making love because that stoped
after our daughter was born'. In some cases we have not had any sex
for over a year. He shows me no emotion or effection in any shape or
form. Talking to him is like talking to a brick wall! He
listens 'sort of' but it goes in one ear and out the other.
I'm on the point of leaving him, 9years of this emotional abuse is
enough for women to take.
Please help im not sure what to do, Im not unattractive, im slim and
take care of myself. Other men find me attractive except the man I
want the attention from.


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