I have a question that maybe some of you can answer for me. Last week
I broke up with my abusive? boyfriend. He says that he was not
abusive cause he did not ever hit me. But he yelled and screamed at
me every day, called me all sorts of names, threw things at me,
threatened me. I could never talk to him about anything all he would
do was roll his eyes at me and act like he was annoyed that he was
expected to listen to me and keep watching the tv and refuse to even
look at me. He is calling me over and over again I am refusing to
talk to him or see him. He is sending me emails about how he is going
to change and he wants me to change him into the man I want him to be
and all sorts of stuff like that. I don't want to get back together
with him, i just want him out of my life which is hard because we have
a baby together. I don't even love him anymore cause every time I was
with him I was always tense and edgy, always waiting for him to throw
another tantrum and blame it on me. If something wasn't my fault then
it was someone elses, nothing was ever his own fault. I guess my
question is do you consider him abusive? Also how can I get him to
leave me alone. He won't stop calling me.